(UN)COMMITTED SEX…

Consensual sex between gay men happens all the time, so why are there so many lingering questions in the air when it comes time to hook up? How can we not respond to the awkward silence in some offhanded way, though it is hard to be blithe and whimsical when we’re attempting to vulnerable and…

¿HOW DO YOU HANDLE APPROACHING MEN?

As society progresses, it seems that meeting men in bars is becoming more and more rare, and while many of us are too shy to approach a guy, when we don’t get approached often either, it can leave us at a frustrating impasse. Moreover it can be discouraging when you go out with friends and…

THE THUG TYPE: HOT ¿OR? NOT

You came across these guys in your life for sure. You know the type of guys that has the dirty jeans/t-shirt looks, the strong attitude, the magnetism of a leader, mixed with the swag of rapper. So do you like the thug type men? Even though they can sometimes be a pain in the ass,…

MAKING THE COMMUNITY WORK FOR YOU…

When we experience change in our life, we can control our response and reaction to the changes that are happening. Transformation is a universal constant that affects our lives from the moment we are born until we leave this earthly existence behind. At the root of all growth, we find change. Occasionally, change and the…