EMBRACING, NOT JUST ACCEPTING AGEING

As my 36th birthday approaches, I feel happier and healthier than ever. I’ve gone from accepting ageing to actually embracing, heck even looking forward to it! I mean, why should I succumb to the media-led, youth-obsessed culture we live in that seeks to only canonise the newest, latest and freshest? If I were to limit…

POSE’S MJ RODRIGUEZ HONORED @ THE HISPANIC HERITAGE AWARDS

MJ Rodriguez, who plays Blanca Evangelista on the hit FX show Pose, was honored at the 31st annual Hispanic Heritage Awards. Tell me more! These awards are among the highest honors by and for Latinx people. Founded by the White House in 1987, they are supported by 40 national institutions. Rodriguez is the first-ever trans woman…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: FATAL FEMALE FLIRTATION…

Have you ever been asked out by a girl? If so, how did you handle it? Do you flirt back or do you tell her outright, “sorry, I  play for the same team if you know what I mean.” Anyway, I’m asking because it happened to me. It got really awkward because she asked me…

COMPASSION, OUR COMMUNITIES & THE PRESENCE OF DIFFICULTIES…

Compassion is the ability to see the deep connectedness between ourselves, others and the community. Moreover, true compassion recognizes that all the boundaries we perceive between ourselves and others are an illusion. When we first begin to practice compassion, this very deep level of understanding may elude us, but we can have faith that if…

7 SURPRISING THINGS HOOKUPS CAN CURE!

That gay hookup you’ve got planned may have hidden health benefits! Gay hookups are nothing new – particularly in an age of apps like Grindr and Scruff. But beyond the physical pleasure they bring, are there really any tangible health benefits? For example, might you experience something that goes beyond the mere release of immediate stress? It turns…

¿WHY ARE THEY NAKED AGAIN?

Do you ever tire of seeing naked men or men in various ‘thirst trap’ positions? Why or why not?    

¿DO YOU HAVE SEX IN PUBLIC BATHROOMS?

Who still has sex in public bathrooms? Well, actually, quite a lot of people. Grindr may be on everyone’s phone but many gay men still get a thrill from jacking off or getting down and dirty in a public toilet. Is this your thing? Why or why not?