TRANSGENDER DAY OF REMEMBRANCE

Today is International Day of the Trans Memory, or Transgender Day of Remembrance. This date honors the trans people who died victims of transphobia & intolerance. It’s also a day to demand JUSTICE! How can you participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance? Participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance by attending or organizing a…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: DATING & OPEN RELATIONSHIPS

I never planned to date a guy in an open relationship. It wasn’t that I was so gung-ho on monogamy, I just figured it wasn’t for me. I’m too jealous, can be needy and didn’t like the idea of being shared. Besides, everyone I knew growing up was monogamous. My parents. My grandparents. Their friends…

RELEASING YOUR EXPECTATIONS & FINDING JOY IN THE COMMUNITY

The further you distance yourself from your expectations, the more exhilarating your life will become. As we endeavor to find personal fulfillment and realize our individual ideals, we naturally form emotional attachments to those outcomes we hope will come to pass. These expectations can serve as a source of stability, allowing us to draft plans…

¿WHAT’S THE LEAST AMOUNT OF EXERCISE YOU CAN DO & STILL BE HEALTHY?

It’s no secret that exercise does a body good. But between work, your side hustle, and just doin’ you, squeezing in time to sweat is a struggle—so we don’t blame you for wondering how much is just enough. The rule of thumb is this: 150 minutes of moderate aerobic exercise or 75 minutes of more intense…

MICHELLE OBAMA SNUCK OUT OF THE WHITE HOUSE TO CELEBRATE MARRIAGE EQUALITY

Former First Lady Michelle Obama revealed in her book, Becoming, that she snuck out of the White House on the night same-sex marriage became legal in the United States. ‘Looking out the window, I saw that beyond the gates on Pennsylvania Avenue, a big crowd of people had gathered in the summer dusk to see the lights,’…

¿DO YOU CHECK YOUR PHONE DURING SEX?

Phone sex is one thing and as technology changed the way we have sex, do you think it is a bit much for your partner to be using his phone during sex? I am not talking about filming the activity taking place, I am talking about the folks that think it’s totally cool to pull out…

2018: ¿WHAT IS CHEATING TO YOU?

What counts as cheating for you in this day and age? Using hookup apps when in a relationship?  How do you define cheating? Have you been cheated on recently?