LISTENING TO THE COMMUNITY WITH A WHOLE HEART

When we begin to listen to the community with our hearts rather than our heads, our whole world changes and becomes softer. Most of us were born and raised in cultures that value the head over the heart and, as a result, we place our own hearts below our heads in a sort of inner…

¿ARE YOU THE MARRYING KIND?

 Are you single, married, or in a (monogamous or non-monogamous) relationship? Moreover, are you the marrying kind? And what do you think about monogamous and non-monogamous relationship in general? Do you also want to get married someday or are you not the marrying type?

¿WHY IS SO HARD TO TALK ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH OUR PARTNERS?

Why is it often easier to view the weaknesses in other people’s relationships than it is to cast a critical eye over one’s own? I have sometimes been guilty of being so head over heels in love – or infatuation – to overlook the fact the feelings are not being reciprocated. Maybe being blind to…

NELSON MANDELA DAY #Mandela100

Mandela Day calls on us all, every day, to make the world a better place. Each year on 18 July we look back on what has been done, and forward to what will be done. Making every day a Mandela Day celebrates Madiba’s life and legacy in a sustainable way that will bring about enduring…

GAY AWAKENINGS: ¿WHEN DID YOU REALIZE YOU WERE A HOMOSEXUAL?

Do you have a crystal clear memory of when you realized that you are gay? I’m not talking about when you accepted that you are gay. I’m talking when did you come to realize that you liked other males?  Can you remember when you realized that you are one of the people society will make fun…