SUCH AS DEATH…

You come… Interrupting Life that is pleasant n’ peaceful Reminding us that the transition of you is troublesome! Suppose that is why we live as if you do NOT exist You engulf our entire being, And take control… …We are such small creatures That are @ your mercy as we try live. Yet I stand…

FRIENDS N’ LOVERS

Why is it that so many of us neglect or forget our friends when we get into a relationship? Whether it is the quality or the intensity of our friendships that change, we often see friends less frequently, or we no longer make new friends when we are involved in a serious romantic relationship. Can…

CYCLE ME

Cycle me, Make me apart of life’s endless creation. I want to come and go with the seasons… And be life into life forever! Create me in a vast room With walls that consist of a thousand doors of possibility. Make sure that each door is flung open to the world outside, And the room…

HURT SO GOOD

You start with a smile, Grows with a kiss And ends with a tear! And since the beginning of my time, I have gazed @ you in awe… Hating myself for the sweet feeling of pain you give me. You know no boundaries, And all I am to you is some creation… That is a…

¿WHAT MANNER OF RULES ARE THESE?

I have just started dating and there are some signs that he could be someone that I can be with for the long haul. Now the thing is that things are new and I am aware that as human beings we have the tendency to be all caught up in love and not LOVE. However,…

MAN VS. BOY

A BOY wantsto control the man in his life. A MAN knowsthat if he’s truly him, he doesn’t need controlling. A BOY willyell at you for not calling them. MEN are too busy to realize you hadn’t. A BOY isafraid to be alone. A MAN revelin it-using it as a time for personal growth. A BOY ignoresthe good guys. A MAN ignoresthe bad…

A NEW APPROACH

¿HOW ABOUT TAKING A BREAK FROM WHAT YOU ARE DOING? Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in our thoughts that we wind up going round in round in circles, finding it difficult to concentrate on things and, because we are so distracted, not really accomplishing much. There may be signals—mental, emotional, and physical—that tell…

HAPPY THANKSGIVING…

As the holidays approach, you may be preparing yourself to gather with family members you don’t usually spend time visiting. You may even feel that you are choosing to meet more from a sense of obligation than celebration. But when we trust that the universe always places us exactly where we need to be, we…

SOLUTIONS 4 THE PROBLEMATIC GAY MAN

I find it very interesting how most if NOT all GAY MEN see themselves living a life that others considered to be just THE GAY THING. It seems as if the life of the GAY man is a self fulfilling prophecy. The BIGGEST problem is that he hears what is being said about him and…

NAME DROPPING…

NAME DROPPING (also called name checking or brand-name dropping) is the practice of casually inserting the names of important people or institutions into a conversation in order to seem more important to the listener. Name dropping is typically considered to be a negative — even offensive — quality. When used in argument it can be…

HAPPINESS ¿WOT IS IT 2 U?

…exploring the wonders of nature …the smell of clean sheets …a warm smile from a stranger …the sound of a child’s laughter …the dew on the fields in early morning …. a hug from someone you love …birds singing …waves lapping on the shore … a puppy wagging it’s tail …waking up in the morning…

CHANGE…

…When YOU do NOT live as if ALL gay men will get HIV/AIDS! …When YOU see the GENDER card being played! …When YOU have defied the CLICHÉ! …When YOU hear them say WE can NOT make a relationship last! …When YOU have found another MALE and he has his SH!T together! …When YOU see them trying to make you out to be something you are NOT! …When YOU allow yourself to be discouraged! …When YOU think that YOUR life is insignificant! …When YOU can enjoy who YOU are! …When YOU feel you can NOT make a change!…