¿SAME-SEX SOUL-MATES?

As far back as I can remember I have been intrigued by the concept of SOUL-MATES. As I thought about it more and more, I realized that the world @ large had this notion that SOUL-MATES can ONLY be a male and female. Of course this did NOT sit well me because it does NOT…

¿HOW SOON IS TOO SOON?

As many of you may not know, I was planning on getting married in lessthan month (October 25, 2008 to beprecise), but due to situationsbeyond our control we decided to put it on hold. This day I have foreseen foras long as I can remember and it saddens me that it won’t happen. But as…

¿WHAT ARE YOUR INNER-DEMONS?

ARE YOU LIVING A REFLECTION OF YOUR CORE TRUTH? ARE YOU FULLY ALIGNED WITH WHO YOU ARE? DO YOU WANT TO MAKE SOME CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE BUT THERE IS AN ELEMENT BLOCKING YOU? If your answer is NO, NO and YES then I say you must deal with your INNER-DEMONS. Most of the demons…

IF YOU ASKED ME TO

Céline Dion covered IF YOU ASKED ME TO and released it as the second single from her eponymous album. It was produced by Walter Afanasieff and was released on April 6, 1992 in the United States, and later the same year in the rest of the world. The song was a hit in the United…

¿WHY ARE WOMEN LESBIAN?

As a gay man I have come across other gay men that asked WHY WOULD A WOMAN BE A LESBIAN? And of course I was dumb founded as I am NOT a lesbian and found it quite peculiar AND interesting to say the least. If you think about it from a typical point of view,…

BOYZ PLAY WITH BOYZ

NEVER in mywildest dreams did I think that I was GAY or that my playing with my male friends in that way was sucha bad thing. Moreover I didn’t understand until now why I got punished fortaking PLAY TIME even further. If only I could have been told that NOTHING was wrong withme by those in charge AND that sexuality is PERFECTLY natural…WISHFULTHINKING I SUPPOSE…They thought…

BECAUSE I BELIEVE…

I Believe… That just because two people argue, It doesn’t mean theydon’t love each other. And just because theydon’t argue, It doesn’t mean they dolove each other.  I Believe… That we don’t have tochange friends if We understand thatfriends change. I Believe… That no matter how gooda friend is, They’re going to hurt youevery once…

WELCOME TO WELLNESS

Wellness—asopposed to fitness—is making a comeback among gay men, and with good reason.Where a previous generation thought of wellness as just the absence of illness,these days wellness programs acknowledge that there’s a lot more to being wellthan just not getting sick. And, at different moments of your life, how youassess your wellness, and what you…

THE CONDOMN CONUNDRUM

As many as 4 out of 10 HIV-positive black men could be putting their partners at risk by not using condoms, according to research in the Journal of Advanced Nursing. The study found that many of the 40- to 65-year-olds were engaging in high-risk sexual practices, including 38% who didn’t use condoms during oral sex,…

EARTHLY DIVINITY…

Godmay have given MAN dominion over the Earth, but does that mean HE can impose HIS beliefs on others AND still expect to make it through the pearly gatesof heaven? The right to make your own choices is a precious one. And it is aknown fact that we grow when we have the freedom to…

UNDERSTANDING

UNDERSTANDING is the title of a number-one R&B single by group Xscape. It was the group’s second consecutive #1 R&B hit after the success of the smash hit “Just Kickin’ It”. The hit song reached #8 on the Billboard Hot 100 and spent two weeks at number-one on the U.S. R&B chart. Though I like…

¿JEALOUS MUCH?

Ever notice how JEALOUSY is the demon with MANY heads when it comes to US gay men? I ask this question because the other night I was having a conversation with someone that I hadn’t heard from in a number of years. And before we began the catching up phase of our conversation, he asked me WHERE MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER…