FLIRTING…WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP

A relationship usually means you’re exclusive to one person, giving your heart and soul to your mate, at least within reason. We’re supposed to feel strongly about that person; and that person only. But does the world stop turning because you’re hitched? OF COURSE IT DOES NOT! Is it normal to stop looking only because…

WRITE TO MARRY DAY

WHAT IS CALIFORNIA PROPOSITION 8? Proposition 8 (officially called the Eliminates Right of Same-Sex Couples to Marry Act) is an initiative on the November 2008 California voter ballot which, if passed, would alter the California Constitution defining marriage as between one man and one woman. If Proposition 8 passes same-sex marriage will be illegal in…

THE STATE OF BEING…

 If BEING comes to us from God and the verb TO BE is a STATE OF BEING and not an action verb. And People don’t say I DO HAPPY THAT IT’S MY BIRTHDAY, I DO CONFUSED ABOUT THIS MATH PROBLEM or I DO SAD THAT YOU’RE MOVING AWAY. They say I AM…when they talk about…

HAPPY EARTH~DAY ®‡ø

Parts Of YOU   Enjoy the ride as YOU flow through the universe For today YOU only become this age but once. For 364 days of out the year YOU struggle against the current of life Trying to do things in your own way And today YOU can. I can go on and tell that…

WEEDS OF CHAOS (REFLECTIONS)

Noel has asked me on a few occasions, HOW HAS MY LIFE CHANGED IN THE PAST YEAR? I would always give him an answer, but the answer didn’t come from my heart until now…I was watching Oprah the other day and she had a guest that was talking about standing on the shoulders of others…

¡HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BABY!

It is said thatone day for ‘God’ is a thousand yearsfor us and today as I celebrate my FIRST yearanniversary with Noel, this saying holds SO much truth. This felt like a long time coming and @ thesame time it still feels like we are meeting for the first time. I wrote a blogentry exactly one year ago…

¿WHO IS THIS MAN?

Haveyou ever been taken aback, rendered speechless AND captivated by someone all @ the same time? I have…The other dayNoel and I were grocery shopping and as we were done, I walked to the cashierand placed my items on the counter. After doing so I looked up and caught aglimpse of a man that seemed…

DISARMING THE KNOW-IT-ALL

Most of us have encountered a person in our lives who can accurately bereferred to as a know-it-all. This person seems to know everything aboutanything that gets brought up and tends to dominate the conversation. Theydon’t take well to being questioned, and they have a hard time ever admittingthat they were wrong. Being around a…

KEEPING IT ALL IN PERSPECTIVE…

If Earth’s population was shrunk into avillage of just 100 people-with all the human ratios existing in the worldstill remaining-what would this tiny, diverse village look like? That’s exactlywhat Phillip M. Harter, a medical doctor at the Stanford University School ofMedicine, attempted to figure out. This is what he found: 57 would be Asian 21…

THE HETERO~PAPARAZZI

So I started a new job yesterday and of course there are persons that want to know about me. Where you worked before? How old are you? Are you married? Do you have any kids? But the one question that has yet to be asked is about my sexuality…How LONG do you think that’ll take?…

CUTTING CORDS (MEN ARE LIKE APPLES)

Itis my belief that MEN are like APPLES on trees. The best ones are @the top, but the boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they areafraid of falling AND getting hurt. Instead,they get the rotten apples from the ground that aren’t as good. But easy. Sothe apples up top think something…