NO PERMISSION NEEDED…

I’ve come to realize that just because I am NOT everyone’s standard mold of a man, that it doesn’t mean I need to cram myself into the wrong fit to suit their purpose. For as long as I remember, I have given myself PERMISSION to be me and I am not about to stop now…The…

THE SAVIORS N’ PROTECTORS…

Have you ever wondered why some of us gay men seem to worship N’ encourage the “DL” man? I mean these are men who have sex with other men, then TRY to appear STRAIGHT while having relationships with women; and don’t acknowledge being gay OR bisexual. On top of that, they don’t identify with the…

¿WHAT DO YOU FEAR?

¿WHAT DO YOU FEAR? Is it TRUTH, CHANGE or JUSTIFICATION? How about LOVE, ACCEPTANCE or HUMANITY? Or is it LIFE, PURPOSE or FREEDOM? I find that so many of us asked ourselves these questions yet no one has tried OR cared to find the answers while the scales of life are tipping from LOVE to…

NO ONE IN THE WORLD

NO ONE IN THE WORLD is a song by Anita Baker, written by Ken Hirsch and Marti Sharron for her 1986 Grammy award winning album Rapture. The song peaked on the Billboard Hot 100 @ 44, but will remain a No. 1 hit in my book. This song wasn’t just another record; this is a…

¿BROTHERLY LOVE ANYONE?

SO I HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH A YOUNG ABOUT MY BLOG YESTERDAY. HE WENT ON ABOUT HE LOVED IT & I WAS PLEASED…HOWEVER, THE FOLLOWING CONVERSATION VIA YAHOO MESSENGER CAUSED ME TO BE CONCERNED… Him: I have not every been f&ck before, but I have sucked my bro lol Me: yr bro? Him: Yeah he…

SEEKING THE DEVIL N’ THE DEEP HOLY EYE…

If I may confess: I am a mere CONNOISSEUR of all things that involve GIVING personal sexual pleasure. I feel that the ability to give sexual self-pleasure is a powerful AND natural activity that PROMOTES a hearty well-being. Doctors say it HEIGHTENS the senses, EXERCISES the body and STRENGTHENS the self-esteem. However, there are SO…

¿INTIMACY > SEX?

Intimacy occurs with everyone we meet, everyday of the year.  Friends, family and even strangers fulfill some part of our total intimacy needs. If you boil down all their findings you’ll discover something most people get confused about: one person can not meet all of our intimacy needs.  In reality it would be unfair to…

¿WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

YOU GOT HIM IN YOUR BED AND HE IS STRUGGLING TO HANDLING YOU; ¿DO YOU? PULL OUT TRY TO GO SLOW TRY TO RELAX HIM PUSH THE DICK IN FAST& DEEP AND WEAR THAT TIGHT ASS OUT! PLEASE ELABORATE IF WOULD LIKE!

¡HAPPY EARTH~DAY DEAVIAN!

SO HERE WE ARE ANOTHER YEAR IS GONE BY THAT MARKS YOUR GETTING A BIT OLDER…I REMEMBER THE DAY YOU CAME HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL NOW YOU ARE 8 YEARS OLD…IF ONLY I COULD HOLD TIME SO THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE…UNCLE LOVES YOU SO MUCH!

FRIENDS DON’T…ENEMIES WON’T…

Many of my FRIENDS tend to forget that I am a unique person whose attributes, attitude AND perspectives are to be admired even if they do not fully gel with their own. For this reason I tend to seek out uniqueness in others AND relish in their individuality AND differences. However, as of late I…

CAN’T YOU SEE

CAN’T YOU SEE is a song by R&B girl group Total, released as their debut single. The track was released from the New Jersey Drive Soundtrack and also later appeared on their debut album. After making their recording debut on his tracks “Juicy”, “One More Chance” and “One More Chance” (Hip Hop Remix)”, The Notorious…

THE BLAME GAME…

What do you do when you are blamed for trying to OR failing to save someone? You know those individuals that are on that slippery slope to nowhere? YEAH THEM! They did EVERYTHING possible to ensure that they get what they wanted, when they wanted without concern of who they hurt…that is until their house…