¿HAS LADY GAGA REDEFINED WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A GAY ICON?

From Judy Garland to Britney Spears there have been many women over the years who have been branded with the title “gay icon.” Some, such as Joan Crawford, gained an early gay following due to her struggles both on and off screen, likening her to an underdog with whom many gay men of the time…

¿DO YOU F&CK LIKE A PORN STAR?

When it comes to bareback porn, do you think it is art imitating life or…?  Many will argue for both sides of this question and that is fine, but I have to wonder when the dust settles, where does the line between fantasy AND responsibility begin? From I knew my gay self; I’ve seen VERY…

¿TOO MUCH FOR A ‘POWER’ BOTTOM?

I have been having regular get-togethers with a man who is quite well endowed. I am what I guess could be considered a power bottom, so he always tops me and I’m more than fine with this. My concern is this: Is it possible to do any sort of permanent damage from getting it too…

HOW TO SPOT A GAY GOLD DIGGER

They try to appear ‘ mature ‘, will tell you that they are not like the other young men, and will swear that they have thier own. Unfortunately, after a few months, you realize that you are the only person contributing to the partnership. They can’t afford to take you out but expect to be…

TRUE BLOOD SERIES RECAP

Are you dying to jump on theTrue Blood bandwagon, but too far behind to catch up on all three seasons before this Sunday’s premiere? HBO has got you covered with this handy dandy five-minute recap clip, seen below. Not unlike those famously informative Lost catch-up sessions, the cable giant has assembled everything you need to know about Sookie Stackhouse, Bill Compton…

THE "PERFECT" PASTOR

The perfect pastor preaches exactly 10 minutes. He [or she] condemns sin roundly but never hurts anyone’s feelings. He [or she] works from 8 AM until midnight and is also the church janitor. The perfect pastor makes $40 a week, wears good clothes, drives a good car, buys good books, and donates $30 a week to the…

REVIEW OF JUMPING THE BROOM

In Jumping The Broom, two very divergent worlds intersect as two African American families from very different socioeconomic backgrounds are brought together for a wedding on Martha’s Vineyard.  Paula Patton stars as Sabrina Watson, tired of the dating scene  she makes a promise to not give,” away her cookies”, until she meets the perfect man….

SHE’S OUT OF MY LIFE

“She’s Out of My Life” is a song written by musical artist Tom Bahler. Although it has been claimed that Bahler wrote the song about Karen Carpenter, Bahler stated, “”The fact is, I had already written that song by the time Karen and I became romantic. That song was written more about Rhonda Rivera . . ….

5 ELIGIBLE GUYS WHO STAY SINGLE

We all know this guy — or are this guy: in his 30s, affable, attractive, and yet he’s never been in a serious long-term relationship. And as his single status stretches into a third decade, one has to wonder: What’s the deal? Far from being undateable, this guy may simply not be ready to change his independent ways. Or,…

¿HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A KNOW-IT-ALL?

Thinking back, I see now that there was a brief moment when I had a choice as to how I would react to the situation that led to this blog entry. I could have just as easily chosen resignation, or amusement, or even sadness. So the obvious question is why did I choose a destructive…