¿CAN MY ONE ON ONE TIME HELP OR HURT MY RELATIONSHIP?

Let me just put this out there I really enjoy a good jack-off.  It’s not compulsive in any way, I just enjoy a bit of ‘me-time’.  I jack off about once a day and I pretty much always use porn to help me get off. I have sex too in a monogamous relationship of six…

FIRST ACTIVE COLLEGE FOOTBALL PLAYER COMES OUT

College football kicker Conner Mertens came out as bisexual to his teammates at Willamette University in Oregon last night, Cyd Zeigler reports at Outsports, becoming the first active college football player in the U.S. to come out publicly. He did it for personal reasons, writes Zeigler, but also in the hope of inspiring fellow LGBT athletes…

THE 6 STRAIGHT WOMEN GAY MEN SHOULD AVOID

In the homo history books, straight women have always held a cherished role in the road to acceptance for gays around the globe. They were holding our hand on our first trip to the gay bars, they went to the prom with us even though they knew they weren’t going to get lucky, and they…

¿WANT REALITY? ¡CREATE IT!

Each of us has a personal “reality” in which we live and function.  However, we do not exist in a vacuum; we are all part of a larger community of humans and we must share our reality with other people who may intrude their own realities on ours and attempt to impose their will and…

FIRST LADY INVITES JASON COLLINS FOR STATE OF THE UNION ADDRESS

After a joint fundraiser for the Democratic Party last year, it was already clear that Michelle Obama had hit it off with Jason Collins. Now Collins will be among the first lady’s special guests during the State of the Union address this week. The White House this morning announced Collins will be among those seated…

FAITH IN ONESELF…

How many times in our lives do we hear people say to us and others, “just have faith and it’ll all work out.”  What is faith?  Because faith is such an elusive concept not grounded in fact and cannot be proven, it is hard for many to grasp and put into practice.  The daily grind…

THE BLACK CHURCH & GAY COMMUNITY NEED EACH OTHER

I cannot speak for others, but as for me, I am a hybrid product of the seemingly contentious traditions. For many years, I allowed myself to fall victim to noxious societal pressures which inadvertently communicated a message of polarized separation for the two influential entities which have helped carve my character and identity as a…

FOOLISH LISTENERS…

“If the singer is a fool, the  listener is also a fool.” Ijaw (Afrikan) proverb