THE BEAUTIFUL IMBALANCE

With gay men focusing more on outer appearance, and less on sexual health and emotional wellbeing, this imbalance can impact on us as individuals and as a community. It’s a good thing that gay men are more inclined to take care of their bodies. But a super-fit body doesn’t mean that you’ve got a super-healthy…

SEX N’ EMOTIONS: CAN YOU MOVE BEYOND BEING SEX BUDDIES?

You’ve been seeing a guy for a few months. He is great to be with and very affectionate, but when the morning arrives you both usually go your separate ways. He does keep in contact with you when we are not together, but your lives are very much separate. He says he likes you a…

SUP BRO: EIGHT THINGS GAY MEN NEED STRAIGHT DUDES TO KNOW

The chasm that has divided homo and hetero men seems to be closing fast. Straight dudes are opening up about the subject of anal play, and gay/straight bromances — not to mention cross-sexuality cuddling — are becoming increasingly popular. Still, there’s work to be done. One can never have too many friends. We’re totally happy…

POLARIZATION LEADS TO "US VS. THEM"

Polarization leads to “us vs. them” ways of thinking. Divide and conquer is a tactic that has been used successfully by the power elite of the world for centuries.  As long as people focus on blaming and attacking “the enemy,” they are not likely to look for the deeper causes of their problems. Controlling factions…