SPIRITUAL BYPASSING…WHEN SPIRITUALITY DISCONNECTS US FROM WHAT REALLY MATTERS

Spiritual Bypassing-the use of spiritual beliefs to avoid dealing with painful feelings, unresolved wounds, and developmental needs–is so pervasive that it goes largely unnoticed.  The spiritual ideals of any tradition, whether Christian commandments or Buddhist precepts, can provide easy justification for practitioners to duck uncomfortable feelings in favor of more seemingly enlightened activity.  When split…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: WE GOT THIS FEELING…

I had my first time with this bi guy who keeps it a secret because of the town we live in. He was out before when he lived somewhere else. We have sex secretly, but I told him that I want more even if we have to keep it a secret. He says he doesn’t…

THIS GAY COUPLE BRAVELY STOOD UP TO HUNDERS OF NEO-NAZIS WITH A KISS

Would you dare to stand up to an angry mob of screaming, flag-waving neo-Nazis? Well, a Spanish gay couple was determined to show that they ain’t afraid of hatred. David Fernández and Gregor Eistert were on a date in the city center on Saturday when they encountered Spanish neo-Nazi group ‘Hogar Social Madrid‘ that was protesting the welcoming of refugees into the…

GAY MEN TELL ME: ¿IS THERE SUCH A THING AS TOO MUCH PORN?

Do you think gay men as whole are so addicted to porn that it is affecting our sexual life?  Do you think porn has desensitized us to reality?   Do you think porn makes many of us incredibly superficial to most of us only wanting “big dicks” and “fat asses”? Within the gay community, do you…

SAME-SEX COUPLE SECRETLY GOES TO PROM, MELTS ALL HEARTS

Myren sure pulled one over on his folks! The maryland high school student wanted to go to the prom with his boyfriend, but his parents didn’t care for that — they forbade him from attending. So he told them that he was going to an “ashawo” party and went anyway. (Sidenote: what’s an ashawo party? In…