Break-ups come in all shapes, sizes and levels of extremity, from ‘we just drifted apart’ to ‘that cheating bastard!’ The post-break-up period can be equally polarised. When it comes to relationships and break-ups, some gay and bi men can feel low and depressed; while others bounce back and immediately hit the gay scene with a vengeance.

Why do you think some relationships break down in the first instance?

And how can we safeguard our mental and sexual health after a break-up?