¿WHY DO WE GET INTO SO MUCH TROUBLE WHEN IT CUMS TO SEX?

Gay men do have a reputation for sometimes being “douchey” when seeking sex. Sometimes, in the hunt for sex, testosterone takes over and the other part of being male, the more tender part gets submerged for a while. This sometimes creates a gay/bi male subculture where we forget that even with a hookup, tender feelings…

¿WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER?

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. So tell me what are the things that tell you, ‘oh this relationship is done?’

TOP PERFORMER DECLINES GAY PORN AWARD NOMINATIONS CITING INDUSTRY RACISM

Top gay porn actor Hugh Hunter has declined his nominations for the GayVN Awards, citing industry racism. The model and cabaret performer took the awards ceremony to task for confining POC actors and scenes into the ‘ethnic’ category. The GayVN Awards, launched in 1998 and returning for the first time since 2011, honor achievements in…

PLACING GAY MEN ON PEDESTALS

When you put other gay men on pedestals, you are giving away your power and saying you are not good enough. When we fall in love with someone or make a new friend, we sometimes see that person in a glowing light. Their good qualities dominate the foreground of our perception and their negative qualities….

GAY MAN & THE ‘HOE’ MANAGEMENT STRUGGLE

We’ve all heard the phrase, “With great beauty comes great responsibility” and if you can’t handle that, then you just end up a hoe. We all know someone who’s totally stunning, but has a hoop like a calamari ring. Yes, the key adjective… is ‘battered’. As gay men, we understand the need for validation, (unfortunately…