Sexually, many of us are displeased with our playmate choices after surfing online, arranging to meet one another, and then discovering that you were misunderstood somewhere in the communication process.
After going to the effort to meet, realizing you and your potential playmate are not in sync is very irritating. How could your potential playmate have misunderstood what you wanted, and the compromises you were willing to make?
So, do you feel that gay men like pushing each other’s buttons?
What are your positive/negative experiences in finding compatible playmates?