We’ve all heard the phrase, “With great beauty comes great responsibility” and if you can’t handle that, then you just end up a hoe. We all know someone who’s totally stunning, but has a hoop like a calamari ring. Yes, the key adjective… is ‘battered’.
As gay men, we understand the need for validation, (unfortunately it’s something that usually comes with the package), and sex offers that; though there’s many ways for us to receive it, sex is undoubtedly the most fun. The thing with random sex is, the balance is only temporarily restored. Quite simply: no matter how many dicks you devour, you’ll never feel full.
The temptation to resist hoeing can be real for any of us. So it’s even tougher when men are pulling out their cocks left, right and centre, and accepting them is the only way you know how to feel good about yourself. Is there some way for gay men to survive the Irresponsible Beauty Syndrome while staying humble, dignified, and find self value?