The gay world typically has a life cycle that goes a little something like this…You start off as a twink, you end up as a daddy. Which means that in your 30s, you’re in no man’s land.
While there can be deviations along the way, the trajectory for the most part, is set in stone.
But while twinks occupy the teen and young adult space, and daddies rule the roost in the realm of the 40s+, what happens to a gay man in the in-between wasteland land of the 30s? It’s the gay man’s equivalent of Britney’s ‘Not a Girl, Not Yet A Woman’. What are you supposed to do in the years when you’re too old to be a twink, but too young to be a daddy?
You enjoy life as a “dink” (daddy + twink = dink) and party! Naked hugs!
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I always thought “Dink” meant Dual Income, No Kids..
Personally, I’d love to entertain those two rough trade types in the picture for this article – but in a motel room, never at my home. I have nice things and I intend to keep them.
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LOVE ‘tongue n cheek’ response to the are you top/bottom question.
Such a good man to assist in the way you 🙂
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I understand that, buddy! Naked hugs!
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