¿HOW DO YOU BOUNCE BACK AFTER THE HOLIDAY FOOD & ALCOHOL BINGE?

‘Twas the season to overdo it with stuffing, turkey, ham, alcohol and pie, pie, and more pie. With all the office parties, cookie swaps, and holiday potlucks this time of year, it’s especially hard to avoid overeating. Hey, it happens to the best of us. But the real problem is usually what happens after—in our…

GAY CLUBS: ¿ARE THEY MORE TOXIC THAN EVER?

I can still remember the day of my first few nights out at a gay club. It was like having the run of a sweet shop at night. There were goodies all around and boy did I want to sample them all. I’d get ready to go out, meet my friends for pre-drinks (even though…

PHOTO OF BOYFRIENDS KISSING SENDS TWITTER INTO MELTDOWN

A US model and community activist has seen one of his tweets go viral in the last two days. Baltimore-based Shahem McLaurin posted two images to Twitter with his boyfriend, Quincy. In one of the images, Quincy gives him a peck on the cheek. There are love hearts around their heads. The simple message accompanying the photos…

¿HOW BIG IS BIG?

It’s the oldest question in the world, and here we are in the 21st century still trying to get hold of an answer: How big is big? When it comes to cocks, I think we can all agree that both ‘big’ and ‘beautiful’ are in the eye of the beholder. But we also, today, have…

RuPaul TELLS OPRAH WINFREY THAT DRAG RACE IS ALMOST LIKE A ‘NEW RELIGION’

Everyone knows RuPaul is the queen, but could the next step be seeing her as a….goddess? Oprah Winfrey recently sat down with the queen of queens to talk drag, RuPaul’s Drag Race, and spirituality. Sitting down for O Magazine and Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday, the two kiki’d about what makes the reality competition show special. RuPaul: ‘Drag…

AGE DIFFERENCES IN RELATIONSHIPS…

Imagine you meet this guy; you both get along well, you start seeing each other often and going on dates. But there is one thing bothering you: there is a big age gap between you. You are in your early 20s and he is much older. Should/would you stop seeing him? Would a gap in…

THIS EMOTIONAL COMING OUT BETWEEN A FATHER & HIS SON WILL HAVE YOU IN TEARS

OK, it takes a lot to make us cry, but this clip has us a little misty-eyed… After keeping his sexuality hidden from his father for thirty years, Black Ink Crew tattoo artist Kevin Laroy, a.k.a. Baby Face Killa, is finally telling his truth. In last week’s episode of the hit VH1 reality series, 30-year-old Kevin asks his father,…

LETTING YOUR GAY LIFE UNFOLD…

Present time can be hard, but life unfolds as it will and the universe will wait as we make our way into the unknown. Our lives are guided by natural rhythms that are particular to each of us and cannot be altered by force of will alone. Life itself is a journey made up of…