I’ve just started having sex with this really great guy but I’m having a major problem with the size of his penis. Basically it’s gigantic. I haven’t measured it but it’s longer and wider than anything I’ve had in the past. I was totally shocked because he’s kind of short and he’s not that buff or anything, he’s actually pretty skinny. The first time we had sex it was okay, although I was sore the next day. Now I’m a bit nervous every time we try because I’m in so much pain.

Can you help?

Have you ever been in this situation?

What are your thoughts?

What advice would you give this person?


3 Comments Add yours

  1. renudepride says:

    The question that many ask but few ever resolve. Try using a sex-toy to increase your intake size comfort, of course, they’re rarely ever the same as the “real-thing.” Experience is the best, just talk to your man, and ask him to be a little gentler and patient. Communication is important. Naked hugs!


  2. PDQ says:

    Oh to have such problems! Length AND girth? You lucky man, you!!

    So let’s start with length: How deep are you going when you clean out? Are you using a Shower Shot? a squeeze bulb type thing? Does it feel like he’s “packing your mud” further up in you? Is his dick coming out dirty? If yes, then you need to clean out deeper. Use a Shower Shot and go deep with it. Allocate about 20 minutes to really do a thorough job. If the water is still coming out with any color or solids in it, you aren’t done yet. If you feel like there’s still “stuff” up inside you, you aren’t done yet. Be sure to remove that drain screen in your shower/tub so everything goes down the drain, and be sure to install the diverter valve so you can control water pressure/flow – and don’t use water that’s too hot!

    Or is the problem that he’s bottoming out in you and hitting your Sigmoid Colon? If so, that DOES hurt. Let him know and ask him not to drill you so deep at full power.

    As for the girth side of the equation: I’m 100% bottom and I’m just going to say this – it’s SUPPOSED to hurt at first! If it doesn’t hurt when he pops the head in initially then he doesn’t have much between his legs – or you’re a dirty whore who gets way too much dick (congratulations!).

    Seriously though, when he first pushes the head of his dick in, your head SHOULD snap back, your eyes SHOULD open wide, your mouth SHOULD form that tight little “o” shape, your toes SHOULD clench. And then bliss, relaxation and pleasure should set in as he buries the rest of his shaft in you. Getting that reaction from you also turns your top on, makes his dick harden up even more and strokes his ego.

    If he’s just way wider than you’re used to, you need to train your hole. Once he’s all the way in, try squeezing him with your ass. It might cause your muscles to relax. I’d also beg him to fuck you frequently and in different positions during your play sessions. Changing positions changes the angle that his cock is at and that will help stretch you out. Practice, practice, practice!

    Then you’ll need a training toy – a dildo with a suction cup on the bottom. Wrap your thumb and forefinger around his fully erect shaft to get an idea of his size, then go shopping for a dildo(s). If possible, get one a little bigger around than he is, at least 8” in length and preferably with a really veiny shaft – not smooth. Grab a stackable plastic patio chair or a barstool – something you can comfortably sit on for half an hour. After cleaning the dildo in HOT water and with anti-bacterial soap, stick the dildo to the chair/stool, slather it with lube and impale yourself on it. I hope you brought a cum rag, a timer, a device to watch porn on because you’re sitting on that dildo for 30 minutes. You can bounce up and down on it, you can just sit on it – but you’re not getting off for 30 minutes.

    Imagine that his cock is up in you. Get hard, play with yourself, but try not to cum till your 30 minutes are up. If you pop too early, you have to get hard and cum again when the timer goes off so you can get off the dildo. Clean the dildo again THOROUGHLY in hot water and with anti-bacterial soap. Do this training routine every day for a week and then every other day for two weeks – unless he’s going to fuck you that day. You want to be tight and fresh for him.

    After three weeks your ass will be well prepped for his length and his girth – you lucky, lucky man!


  3. PDQ says:

    With regards to this:

    “I was totally shocked because he’s kind of short and he’s not that buff or anything, he’s actually pretty skinny.”

    Isn’t it interesting how God blesses everyone in some way? The ones who don’t look special in any way wind up being blessed in ways that most people will never get to see, much less experience, while the ones who are blessed with certain visible physical attributes miss out in other areas.

    Does he have big thumbs? Big hands? Big feet? ‘Cuz you know what they say about a man with those!


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