Sometimes when I’m on social media apps and I see someone’s profile that I might be interested in and I say hello or a little more like “Hello there. How’s your day?” But then I get no response and after a while I see that he viewed my profile but didn’t have the courtesy to speak back. I find that kinda arrogant and mean’ spirited. Am I wrong for taking this type of behavior personal? I know that not everyone that speaks or say hello is out to screw or get screwed, nonetheless it seems to be common occurrence among gay men.
Are we too busy to answer politely that we are not interested? Are we afraid to hurt each other’s feeling? Do we care about hurting someone’s feeling?