¿HOW DO YOU HANDLE RUNNING INTO FORMER HOOKUPS?

it was supposed to be just one time, one time; and then you forget about each other and move on with your lives. However, as fate would have it, you accidentally ran into your hookup while running some errand and alas, you don’t want to talk or reconnect with him so what do you do?

A.) Make a run for it;

B.) Worse, he does.

Running into a former fuck buddy, hookup, or even an ex-boyfriend is not impossible. Certainly, it has been known to happen to many others before and why not, if you’ve met once, then the two of you can meet twice in this lifetime. After all, while the universe is big, there’s such a thing as serendipity. The question is: what do you do when this happens to you? 

Pretend you didn’t see him, or hide?

Keep it Casual?

Nod at him in recognition but keep walking?

Both of you knew it was a one-time thing, no need to keep the situation even more awkward than it already is?

That being said, have you ever accidentally run into a hookup?

If so, how did you handle it?

What did the other guy do?

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5 Comments Add yours

  1. renudepride says:

    Simply greet him and keep the discourse casual and unaffected. If he asks if you’re seeing anyone, simply nod and comment “Yes, and it looks promising.” Even if it doesn’t. If the encounter was only for once and you both know it, there’s no ill-will or hurt feelings. Naked hugs!

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  2. galby68 says:

    I think I’ve experienced all possible scenarios with hook ups and dates.
    Luckily, I have a gift for being awkward and making shit weird.
    My absolute favorite instance happened with a guy I went out with a few times when I first moved back to Portland. He ended up disappearing like fog. I never even knew where he lived…until six months later when I moved into a short term lease in a 20 unit building that just so happened to be where he hung his hat.
    That’s karma for ya.

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  3. Pacey says:

    I have experience every possible situation I think you can. From total awkwardness to total casual encounters.
    My favourite has been when the guy has been totally weirded out and awkward. Because when we bumped into each other he was with his current boyfriend even tho we hadn’t hooked up in months lol.

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  4. Hamdaan Baig says:

    Great post! Please check out my latest post as well. Thanks 🙂

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