FALL IN LOVE WITH BEING ALIVE!

In 2019, I hope you fall in love with being alive. I hope you fall in love with the loud moments and the softer moments. I hope you fall in love with both the star-scattered sky and the thunderstorms that burst out above your head. I hope you lose your umbrella and you let loose…

KINKY SEX…

Kinky includes anything that deviates from the straight and narrow. From playing doctor, to spanking, to BDSM and fisting, kinky sex is the contrary of missionary position. It’s important to be on the same sexual wavelength as your partner though. Unfortunately, most gay guys don’t discover their partner’s fantasies until later in the relationship. So communication…

EMPIRE’S JUSSIE SMOLLETT HOSPITALIZED AFTER BRUTAL HOMOPHOBIC ATTACK

Police have confirmed that Empire star Jussie Smollett, 36, required hospital treatment in Chicago this morning. It followed a 2am attack in the city. They are investigating whether the incident was a hate crime. The incident was first reported by TMZ. Quoting sources close to the actor, it says he flew in to Chicago from New York Monday evening….

¿HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU MET YOUR SOULMATE(S)?

Soulmate; a word which makes you think about romantic movie scenes and love songs. An epitome who makes you feel whole because he is your other half who finished each other sentences and made you brave enough to break down your walls. The definition of soulmate sounds too cliché as its concept always be related…

JUS E-MAIL ME: I HAVE POST SEX SHAME

My hookups go something like this, we talk on Grindr, he comes over, we get undressed and do the business. ‘Then the guy would make small talk as we both got dressed and leaves. This makes me feel dirty and I even change the sheets and take a shower afterwards. I brush my teeth and…

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE ALL STARS: SEASON 4, EPISODE 7 – “QUEENS OF CLUBS”

It’s certainly a high bar to top last week’s GAG-worthy lip sync Thunderdome, but there was a lot to like about last night’s episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars, even if it was one of the more predictable installments. Our most recent ep, “Club Queens,” felt like a real throwback to Drag Race greatness. It featured an old-school…

GROUNDING OURSELVES: THE COMMUNITY BEING OUR STRONG CONTAINER

As queer beings living on earth, it is important to learn to ground ourselves in relation to our community. We often hear people telling us to ground ourselves, but we may not be sure what that means and how we might do it. Grounding ourselves is a way of bringing ourselves literally back to the…