SEX & TECHNOLOGY

If you’d have told our great grandparents that one day we’d be exposing our genitals to strangers through a computer screen, they’d probably scream bloody murder. But this is sexual expression – and a career – in 2019.  In fact, technology plays a huge – even pivotal – role in our modern sexualities; whether we’re…

JUSSIE SMOLLETT ‘DEVASTATED’ BY REPORTS HE STAGED HIS OWN ATTACK

Out actor Jussie Smollett’s lawyers have denied reports that he might have staged his own attack. Smollett, who is black and came out gay in 2015, has said that he was attacked last month by two men in downtown Chicago. The men hurled racial and homophobic slurs and told Smollett that he was in “MAGA…

10 REASONS WHY NONE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS LAST LONGER THAN 3 MONTHS

Three months of dating a guy may not seem like a long time, but for some of us, it’s the longest relationship we’ve ever had. So if you find yourself in that category, asking yourself, “Why can’t I seem to have a boyfriend longer than a few months?”then this article and (10 reasons) are for you! …

DON CHEADLE SHOWED HIS SUPPORT OF TRANSGENDER KIDS & TWITTER WENT WILD

Don Cheadle may play a superhero in the Marvel Cinematic Universe, but during last night’s Saturday Night Live, the actor proved himself a real-world hero to transgender youth. Cheadle, who hosted the show last night, introduced the evening’s musical guest, Gary Clark Jr., while  wearing a black t-shirt with the slogan “Protect trans kids” printed on…

MISSED CONNECTIONS…

Has a guy ever flirted with you, hinted he liked you, but then for some reason or other you totally missed it only to realize years later that the poor guy was actually trying to ask you out? Any missed signal/missed connection stories? 

THE COMMUNITY (WE ARE FAMILY)

We are queer individuals, we are family – we all look at the same stars, we all laugh and cry, we all love. When it comes to our communities, we sometimes see only our differences. We see the way many of us cling to ideas we don’t believe, or act in ways we try not…

7 EASY EXERCISES EVERY GAY MAN SHOULD TRY

Working out isn’t easy, but once you learn how your body works, it can be fun and satisfying. As someone who’s been a gym regular for nearly a decade, I thought I knew everything I needed to know, but I was so wrong. It’s easy to be complacent when working out. While I seemed to maintain my…

THIS IS WHY VALENTINE’S DAY MATTERS, EVEN IF YOU’RE SINGLE

No holiday has garnered as much skepticism as Valentine’s Day. And I’ll start out by saying I have no disillusionment about changing that fact with a blog post. Nonetheless, as someone who has dedicated their career to studying love and relationships, I do think we’re a bit too down on what is supposed to be…