¿ARE YOU THE MARRYING KIND?

 Are you single, married, or in a (monogamous or non-monogamous) relationship? Moreover, are you the marrying kind? And what do you think about monogamous and non-monogamous relationship in general? Do you also want to get married someday or are you not the marrying type?

¿WHY IS SO HARD TO TALK ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH OUR PARTNERS?

Why is it often easier to view the weaknesses in other people’s relationships than it is to cast a critical eye over one’s own? I have sometimes been guilty of being so head over heels in love – or infatuation – to overlook the fact the feelings are not being reciprocated. Maybe being blind to…

NELSON MANDELA DAY #Mandela100

Mandela Day calls on us all, every day, to make the world a better place. Each year on 18 July we look back on what has been done, and forward to what will be done. Making every day a Mandela Day celebrates Madiba’s life and legacy in a sustainable way that will bring about enduring…

GAY AWAKENINGS: ¿WHEN DID YOU REALIZE YOU WERE A HOMOSEXUAL?

Do you have a crystal clear memory of when you realized that you are gay? I’m not talking about when you accepted that you are gay. I’m talking when did you come to realize that you liked other males?  Can you remember when you realized that you are one of the people society will make fun…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: ¿DADDY WHO?

‘Daddy’ is hot right now and I get that, but what’s up with men calling me ‘daddy’ during sex? Are men suddenly fantasizing about their fathers or older men? I get that fantasy in the porn world, but outside of porn land, I can’t seem to find the appeal. Has a man ever called you…

SEEING OUR BEAUTIFUL QUEER SELVES…

Many of us do not take the time to notice and acknowledge how beautiful we are as same gender loving individuals. We may be great lovers of beauty, seeing it in the people, places, and things around us, while completely missing it in ourselves. Some of us feel that it is vain to consider our…