HAPPINESS

Some day, sometime, something’s going to make you wonder where ‘happiness’ has gone! You will wonder why one has to be here and endure events that had better be avoided and, never happened. To know joy, the opposite must be there to draw a contrast and resonance. What unhappiness was created by our own misjudgments…

5 JACK’D HOOK UP TIPS YOU NEED TO SEE & SHARE RIGHT NOW! [VIDEO]

“If you not sending me a message I can understand how you gon’ get some dick?” Supaman asks. There’s some must see tips for making sure you catfishers out there in the video below. Plus, a special tip for bottoms who brag on their services: “Don’t do all this talking about fucking and you gone…

¿HAVE WE BEEN SOLD ON "LOVE"?

What do we do when we’re in love? Logic seems to get blinded by our infatuation with this other person which then might lead to illogical reasonings. Our attachment, though it makes us feel good, can govern our decision making throughout our time of commitment. We’re swept off our feet – hanging on a thread…

WHY I STOPPED DATING WHITE MEN – BY ANTHONY WILLIAMS

After 26 years as a Black queer man and two separate 2.5-year relationships with white men, 2015 is the year I have decided to stop dating white men indefinitely. While my personal decision not to date white men is the direct result of actually dating white men, the decision is rooted less in my experience with the…

THE GAY BOTTOM DIET

Along with unicorns and leprechauns, the so-called “bottom diet” is always elusive. I’ve been writing this blog for several years. And one of the most popular food-related questions that I get asked is about this very issue. In varying forms, the question goes something like this: What foods can I eat to ensure that I’ll be…

HOW TOP LIKE A STUD!

This column is part one of a new weekly sex-ed series from Woody Miller, sex advice columnist, and author of the best-selling book, How to Bottom Like a Porn Star and How To Top Like A Stud: A Penetrating Guide to Gay Sex. This series combines porn industry secrets with innovative techniques from the latest…

MAKING GAY FRIENDS AFTER 30 (PART III)

My quest to make new gay friends – after turning the big 3-0 – has in some ways, come full circle. (Feel free to catch up with Part1 and Part 2 here). I’ve gone from not having gay friends, but wanting to have some. To actively seeking and making gay friends, but it wasn’t as good as I thought it would be….

MAKING GAY FRIENDS AFTER 30 (PART II)

Does forming new, meaningful friendships with other gay guys get harder as you get older? And does being in a relationship add another layer of complexity? When I last left off, my partner and I had just made contact with another gay couple living in the same area to us. Considering we’re about an hours…

GAY STUFF: LIFE AS AN OLDER GAY MALE

Articles have been written about adjustments older males face in their later years and some websites offer social interaction, but not many offer sexual opportunities. We have come to erroneously believe that sex is not happening among older adults. WOW! We are misinformed! Sexual activity among older adults is still a hot topic—pun intended! Many…

BREAKING! YOUR RELATIONSHIP MEANS NOTHING UNLESS YOU PLASTER IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA

CALLING all relationship newbies! We have some very important news to report regarding your recent coupling. Are you shoving your relationship down the throats of everybody you know? Bombarding their News Feeds with nauseating displays of public affection? Suffocating anyone who will listen with constant drivel about how happy you are? No? Well, you should be! A…

¿IS SOCIAL MEDIA MAKING US UN-SOCIABLE?

Social media’s goals are lofty. It’s designed to bring us together. To connect people all over the world. But does it actually, really do any of that? In the almost decade since it’s invaded, and now pervaded our lives, has social media actually made us less sociable? These days, we’re connected like never before. We…