¿HAVE WE BEEN SOLD ON "LOVE"?

What do we do when we’re in love? Logic seems to get blinded by our infatuation with this other person which then might lead to illogical reasonings. Our attachment, though it makes us feel good, can govern our decision making throughout our time of commitment. We’re swept off our feet – hanging on a thread…

THE HIDDEN TRUTH ABOUT A GAY MAN’S G-SPOT

I have to say, a lot of people are hating on the Male G-Spot. Some say it doesn’t exist, others say it’s as real as apple pie. To those who are nonbelievers, I hope they and their vanilla sex live a long and happy life together. I have seen the promised land, and let me…

10 REASON WHY GAY GUYS CAN HAVE SEX & STILL BE FRIENDS

Gay guys have their own relationship with sex, especially when we’re young and single. Nowadays it’s like online shopping: you swipe, you type, and we’re here – straight from the iPhone to your front door. People have asked me how gay guys can keep the friendship intact after sleeping with their buddy. I used to…

GAY HATE CRIMES ARE NOT STOPPING!

Have we become a world that is so petrified of the bully that we’re too scared to report to the higher-ups to fix the situation? Local police clearly haven’t done a great job in letting the gay community know that they have their back. Most police would say that hate crimes are difficult to handle…

11 MASTURBATION TECHNIQUES EVERY GUY MUST TRY

I don’t know about you, but I appreciate my “me” time just as much as I love our “we” time. My man is fabulous in bed, but every once in a while I need to remind myself of what I have cooking. After all, sex doesn’t require two people. Since discovering the act of masturbation, I’ve pushed…

THE POWER IN BEING VERSATILE

What’s your preferential sex position? I know you have one. Let’s talk man to man here. One of the things that make us different from straight people is sex. We don’t have to be confined to strictly “top” or “bottom” positions like heterosexual couples are. Gay guys can switch it up from time to time. Sex will…

WHY YOU NEED TO BECOME THE MAN OF YOU OWN DREAMS

You’ll never be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself first. Our dreams seem to be on an invisible axis, tilting to and fro until they land in a place closest to our hearts. Sometimes we force it; other times we’re afraid it’ll land somewhere dark so we’ll try and spin forever….

HOW TO MAKE GAY SEX MEAN SOMETHING, AGAIN

It’s easy get caught up in the sex scene, honey. I remember when I first downloaded Grindr—I was hooked on my phone for months. I’m not gonna have a high brow… I was addicted to it. But there comes a time when we all have to know when to log off permanently. Sex can easily…

THE 6 PHASES OF A GAY MAN’S LIFE

Life is an interesting journey. Sometimes we have to work twice as hard to prove our worth, and as gay men we often get faced with challenges that most of the world will never have to know. Growing older in this day and age means dealing with the stigma of ageism as well as our own…

¿WHY ARE GAY MEN AFRAID OF NUDITY?

Nudity is something that is worshiped in gay culture. In the gayborhoods, a bar isn’t a bar unless you have at least two half-naked dancers on the tops of tables. Though body worship is widespread, is it an act of idolization rather than self-want? We’d much rather someone else show their nipples than for us…

10 THINGS SINGLE GAY GUYS ARE SICK OF HEARING

Single gay guys don’t want your pity. Hell, they don’t even want your help most of the time. It might surprise you to know that many of us are happy and don’t need a boyfriend or husband to define our self-worth, but chances are you probably won’t believe us no matter how many times we…