REVENGE PORN…

If you’ve ever sent a nude or a sext, you’re not alone. We’ve all done it – walked past the mirror after a shower, thought we looked mildly attractive, lighting is good, and we crack out our phones and snap a shot. In those fleeting moments of confidence we send it to a potential someone…

HOW TO HAVE A THREESOME…

Lots of couples decide to have threesomes to spice up their sex life together. It can be the beginning of a new stage in their sexual relationship or the end of the whole relationship. Find out how to know if three’s company or a crowd. Bring up the subject Bringing up the subject that you…

MASTURBATION & YOU

Watch any porn movie and you’ll see almost every scene end in a good bit of butt fucking. But when it comes to the real world sex isn’t all about sticking it in or being stuck into. Sex is also about romance and intimacy. And wanking. Lots of wanking. We’re all used to helping ourselves…

HIV ISN’T DIRTY, STIGMA IS

I was at a party the other day and found myself chatting to a guy I’d not met before. He was in his early thirties, seemed smart, funny and was kind of cute looking. Honestly, I’m not using this column to try to pick people up. I only mention that he was cute because you’d…

NO ANAL SEX PLEASE, WE’RE GAY

It can seem like all gay men are obsessed with the ass and that fucking is our raison d’être, but not everyone is as focused on anal-gazing as you might think. Is anal sex the be all of a gay man’s sex life? And what’s it like out there for those who say “no” to…

F&%KING FRIENDS…

Being gay can be confusing and tough. When you take your first timid steps/stride purposefully/sashay (delete as appropriate) out of the closet, it’s easy to be blinded by the bright pink light, and stumble around excited and confused, tripping over the etiquettes and rituals that are so ingrained in the Gayverse. The most delicate of…

¡GAY MEN DO IT ANNUALLY!

Eight reasons why you should get off your arse and test for HIV. Figures show that although more and more of us have an HIV test each year, the vast majority of us don’t. The Health Protection Agency estimates that 59,000 men who have sex with men got tested in 2010, but this is thought to…