THE POSSIBILITIES OF "HE"

I am sorry to speak out of turn, I know that it has been a while since I wrote you; but I could NOT help this. MY mind has been going since I last spoke with and as usual you went ALL silent and I figured that IF I was a GOOD boy and did…

SOMETIMES…

…I become so afraid that I may have to live a life that is LESS than what I want for myself. I have this DREAM and as time go on I wonder if it will ever come to fruition. For a long time now, I have decided or rather it was decided that I COULD…

MAN…QUEST

I am on a quest to find a conscious man To find that one God has picked out for me, The one who just takes my breath away. I want that spiritual connection, Where things can be unsaid but understood. I am looking for my soul mate, I am looking for someone to stimulate my…

¿A FEW GOOD MAN?

From the time I can remember I’ve been running into some pretty decent guys (at least what I thought) and we’d begin seeing one another. The thing that gets me is that all of a sudden, it seems to turn to their wanting something else even though I’ve laid it all out what I want…

¿HOMBRES Y YO?

What is it about men & me!?!?! Is there a bull’s eye on my forehead with the words “LET’S CHALLENGE HIM” written under it?! If you don’t want to A REAL MAN DON’T LOOK MY WAY!!! I say this and MEN still come thinking, believing and hoping that they can BREAK ME. Take what they…

SINGLEHOODINESS…(THE MAN I WANT)

To find peace as a single person is a great challenge by many. Our hegemony suggests that we are nothing and in fact are incomplete if we cannot find and stay in a successful partnered relationship. In this country, we are bound to find that there are literally a handful of beautiful black men who…

AS LONG AS THERE IS BREATHE…

If, when faced with the bad, when told everything is futile, I can still look up and end the conversation with the phrase… yeah….BUT, then I still have hope… Hope is such a marvelous thing. It bends, it twists, it sometimes hides, but rarely does it break… It sustains me when nothing else can… It…

HE & I,

FOR ME…HE IS MY IDEAL MATE! I desire a man who is motivated towards perfecting himself spiritually, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, economically and physically. He is the MAN that is tailor-made for me. He is honest, a man of integrity and good moral character, he is be open minded, sensitive, yet secure in who he is. He…

¿CHUELLAS EN TIEMPO?

Two young lovers, Walking on the sand, Gazing at each other, Talking hand in hand, The prints they leave behind them, Marking memories of the past, The long beach laid before them, Hoping love will last, The ocean captures the footprints, And erases them from the shore, Taking with it remembrances, And leaving them with…

THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT

WE ARE TWO UNIQUE INDIVIDUAL CHILDREN OF GOD, WHOSE FATE WAS PRE-DESTINED…WE WALK THIS PATH TOGETHER. NEITHER ONE OF US IS PERFECT, BUT WE ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER! The phrase the butterfly effect refers to the idea that a butterfly’s wings might create tiny changes in the atmosphere that ultimately cause a tornado to…

…THE STEVE 2 MY ADAM

Dear God, can I please have a man of my own…Let him be handsome, smart, aggressive and jovial. Let him be giving, free-spirited, loving and honest. Let him love me ‘DEEPLY’ & ‘COMPLETELY’ but most of all let him be a man of my ‘OWN’…In Jesus name…AMEN! He …the Adam to my Steve He… the…

U & ME…

The connection between you and me is amazing But can that bond paint pictures on the canvas of my mind Painting images never seen before A life we can explore Us moving forward Following footsteps I left in the sand We will find ourselves in the promise land Let my mind take you on this…