JUS’ E-MAIL ME: FATAL FEMALE FLIRTATION…

Have you ever been asked out by a girl? If so, how did you handle it? Do you flirt back or do you tell her outright, “sorry, I  play for the same team if you know what I mean.” Anyway, I’m asking because it happened to me. It got really awkward because she asked me…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: ¿AM I DESERVING OF MY RELATIONSHIP?

So I found myself a good one and he’s giving, thoughtful, committed, and consistent and you’re happy together. However, I thought the good relationships don’t need a sane amount of work to keep the relationship strong. I used to roll my eyes at the people who claimed they rarely argue and called each other “babe.”…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: ¿DADDY WHO?

‘Daddy’ is hot right now and I get that, but what’s up with men calling me ‘daddy’ during sex? Are men suddenly fantasizing about their fathers or older men? I get that fantasy in the porn world, but outside of porn land, I can’t seem to find the appeal. Has a man ever called you…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: NEED NOT REPLY?

Sometimes when I’m on social media apps and I see someone’s profile that I might be interested in and I say hello or a little more like “Hello there. How’s your day?” But then I get no response and after a while I see that he viewed my profile but didn’t have the courtesy to…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: TOO GOOD LOOKING TO DATE

I have a weird issue. So, I’m really handsome, like, objectively, classically handsome. This isn’t me bragging, it’s just the facts. Everybody has been telling me this forever, and I believe them. And that means I meet a lot of men who are interested in me. But I can’t seem to hold onto any of…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: I RARELY ENJOY SEX WITH OTHER MEN…

If you were to ask anyone close to me, they’ll say I was a sexual deviant. But, the truth is, almost 100% of my past endeavours were at best unsatisfying and, in the past couple of years, also increasingly fleeting. It’s not because my encounters were necessarily ‘bad’ that my sex drive has decreased, it’s…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: SUGAR DADDY WAITING

I surf the internet hoping to find a hot young male who could qualify as my full-time lover and playmate (LTR). I am a Silver Daddy who likes the magnificent beauty of a young Adonis and I find a 30 year age spread to be hot! The eye candy appeal intoxicates me and my animal…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: BIG DICK PROBLEMS

I’ve just started having sex with this really great guy but I’m having a major problem with the size of his penis. Basically it’s gigantic. I haven’t measured it but it’s longer and wider than anything I’ve had in the past. I was totally shocked because he’s kind of short and he’s not that buff…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: ¿HOW DO I LOSE MY ‘GAY VIRGINITY’?

Growing up in a sexually repressed world, I was eager to lose my virginity. So few days ago, lying in bed, I turned to the man next to me I’d just had sex with and asked: ‘So does this mean I’ve lost my virginity?’ He laughed and replied ‘I’m afraid not.’ Leaving me asking, what…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: MORE THAN BIG BLACK D!@K

On a few occasions, men who were perfect strangers have touched me inappropriately in gay bars and in gay nightclubs without my consent.  If you accidentally make eye contact with someone, they sometimes believe they now have the right to touch you how they please. This has always been something that not only confused me…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: HAVING A 3SOME WITHOUT THE DRAMA…

Being part of a threesome is a common sexual fantasy for partner and me, but finding our way into one (and maneuvering within one) seems incredibly daunting. We are not familiar with sharing intimacy with anyone other than ourselves and we are wondering how to navigate a 3some without any drama. Have you ever been…

JUS E-MAIL ME: ¿HOW DO I GET OVER MY STRAIGHT FRIEND?

Our friends group is mix of straight and gay men, but there is one guy who I am really close to, and to be honest, I love him very much.  He’s straight, married and loves me too as a friend. I really do care about him and he does too (he treats me like a…