12 REASONS YOU SHOULD BE SINGLE…

You grow more in the off season Sexual interests change You need to find your life mission Experimentation is the elixir of life Expand your sex skills If you’ve been hurt, you need time – more than you think If you hurt him, take even more time If you’re in a transitional period, try being…

¿CAN WE ACKNOWLEDGE OUR QUEER SELVES?

Most LGBTQ persons look for someone else to acknowledge them when they’re not acknowledging themselves, when all they really longing for is to be seen. To be validated. How doe we come to a place where only we and no one else can give us a sense of worth?  Can we actively choose to see…

THERE’S ONE PERSON WE’LL NEVER GET OVER…

Even long after the relationship dies and all connections perish, this person stays alive in our consciousness.  It’s not like we spend our entire day fantasizing about them or reminiscing. It’s not like our lives stopped when they left it. It’s not like we haven’t moved on—we might even be building a relationship with someone…

TIPS FOR GETTING OVER YOUR EX…

No matter how old you are, how many times you have endured it or how long you were together, going through a breakup is not only painful, but it can rock your confidence, dampen your mood and leave you feeling hopeless. Depending on who decided to call it quits and who was left out to…

9 ‘BAD’ HABITS KILLING LGBT PEOPLE

While we have plenty of people trying to do harm to us because of our sexual orientation or gender identity, we often don’t do ourselves any favors when it comes to self care. Here are the bad habits we should have given up last century: 1.   We drink too much.Heavy drinking and binge boozing is more prevalent…

10 ATLANTA GAY PRIDE TIPS BEFORE YOU GET NAUGHTY THIS WEEKEND

It’s that time year again when black gays, lesbians, and transgendereds from around the globe make their annual pilgrimage to Atlanta Black Gay Pride during Labor Day Weekend. Celebrating its 20th anniversary, this year’s prides festivities are sure to be entertaining, exciting,and full of debauchery. Although Atlanta Black Gay Pride is about fun and celebrating…

8 THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT A {3}SOME

Having more than one partner at a time, especially when they’re both pleasing you, is one of the ultimate fantasy. But, what’s the reality behind this fantasy? I’ve ticked it off my to-do list many years ago and can give you some tips to make sure your threesome is story-worthy. 1. Threesomes are not like…

7 SIGNS YOU’RE GETTING OLD: THINGS JUS’ AIN’T THE SAME

It wasn’t that long ago when many of us were living the good life, free of responsibilities and spending our money on anything our young little hearts desired. However, things done changed. We’re not completely up there yet, but we’re getting there and just in case you haven’t noticed, these seven sign might just be…

"MANSPREADING" ADDED TO THE OXFORD ENGLISH DICTIONARY

It’s official, ya’ll. “Manspreading” isn’t just a slang term for an obnoxious phenomenon that happens on crowded subways anymore. It’s officially a word. The venerable Oxford English Dictionary just issued its quarterly update of new words that have gained enough widespread use in the English language to merit being added to its ever-growing database, and…

9 TYPES OF PENISES YOU’LL MEET IN YOUR LIFETIME

When it comes to sex, there are certain things you can never be prepared for. Like, the first time a man unpacks the goods and you something you really weren’t prepared for down there. Are his balls the size of grapefruits or is his penis really tiny? Every penis is unique, but some are more…

¿WHAT IS A REAL MAN?

A Real Man is not caught up in labels, he’s just knows that he’s only into men. A Real Man wouldn’t be sitting up in a homophobic church week after week. A Real Man has a spiritual relationship with a higher being. A Real Man is honest, trustworthy, sensitive and caring. A Real Man wouldn’t…