¿HOW ARE YOU ENDING YOUR SUMMER?

Sadly, summer can’t be year-round for all of us. For those of us that are about to experience seasonal changes that autumn bring, now is the time to pack in the last of summer fun! This is not the time for being a couch potato, it is time get pull out the list of all…

¿WHY ARE THEY NAKED AGAIN?

Do you ever tire of seeing naked men or men in various ‘thirst trap’ positions? Why or why not?    

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS & GAY MEN

What is it with gay men and open relationships? Are they evidence that our relationships are as varied and individual as we are or proof that gay men have commitment issues? Should we live by our own rules and choices or are we greedy, selfish and promiscuous? And now that same sex couples can get married,…

¿HOW DO YOU HANDLE APPROACHING MEN?

As society progresses, it seems that meeting men in bars is becoming more and more rare, and while many of us are too shy to approach a guy, when we don’t get approached often either, it can leave us at a frustrating impasse. Moreover it can be discouraging when you go out with friends and…

¿DOES BEING GAY MAKE US MORE ‘MASCULINE?’

One trait commonly associated with masculinity is the behaviour of seeking other male attention for approval. Think team sports, it’s all about dude-on-dude approval. But gay guys often strive to achieve a similar end, also regularly seeking validation from other men. The tactics may differ, however. Does that make gay men, by definition, hyper-masculine? Perhaps a…

¿ARE YOU THE MARRYING KIND?

 Are you single, married, or in a (monogamous or non-monogamous) relationship? Moreover, are you the marrying kind? And what do you think about monogamous and non-monogamous relationship in general? Do you also want to get married someday or are you not the marrying type?

GAY AWAKENINGS: ¿WHEN DID YOU REALIZE YOU WERE A HOMOSEXUAL?

Do you have a crystal clear memory of when you realized that you are gay? I’m not talking about when you accepted that you are gay. I’m talking when did you come to realize that you liked other males?  Can you remember when you realized that you are one of the people society will make fun…

¿IS CHEATING EVER HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

At some point or another, we are all tempted by the fruit of another. It’s an inevitable part of human nature, especially when curiosity, boredom or monotony gets the best of our hearts — and, ahem, our groins. That being said, if you commit infidelity in your long-term relationship and fess up to your wanderings,…

¿ARE YOU SINGLE BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF BEING VULNERABLE?

So after years of searching for ‘Mr Right’ you finally found your match. He’s smart, funny, creative, affectionate and emotionally balanced, pretty much ticking all the essential boxes on your list. You’ve always been picky and perhaps that might explain why you’ve been single for most of your adult life. But now that all looks…

¿WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST PRIDE EXPERIENCE LIKE?

The very first Gay Pride March was held on June 28, 1970 to mark the first anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, and over the decades the tone and tenor of the Pride March has changed. Nevertheless, it still has the power to inspire and empower the members of our community that need that extra push….

PRIDE, LOVE & GAY MEN

Finding a fuckbuddy, a hookup, making friends are all easier than finding love during pride month. Am I right? To find love, not only you need to be attracted to the person physically, but also mentally and sometimes even spiritually! During pride month, I feel it is even harder than any other time (depending on…