¿ARE YOU THE MARRYING KIND?

 Are you single, married, or in a (monogamous or non-monogamous) relationship? Moreover, are you the marrying kind? And what do you think about monogamous and non-monogamous relationship in general? Do you also want to get married someday or are you not the marrying type? Advertisements

GAY AWAKENINGS: ¿WHEN DID YOU REALIZE YOU WERE A HOMOSEXUAL?

Do you have a crystal clear memory of when you realized that you are gay? I’m not talking about when you accepted that you are gay. I’m talking when did you come to realize that you liked other males?  Can you remember when you realized that you are one of the people society will make fun…

¿IS CHEATING EVER HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

At some point or another, we are all tempted by the fruit of another. It’s an inevitable part of human nature, especially when curiosity, boredom or monotony gets the best of our hearts — and, ahem, our groins. That being said, if you commit infidelity in your long-term relationship and fess up to your wanderings,…

¿ARE YOU SINGLE BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF BEING VULNERABLE?

So after years of searching for ‘Mr Right’ you finally found your match. He’s smart, funny, creative, affectionate and emotionally balanced, pretty much ticking all the essential boxes on your list. You’ve always been picky and perhaps that might explain why you’ve been single for most of your adult life. But now that all looks…

¿WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST PRIDE EXPERIENCE LIKE?

The very first Gay Pride March was held on June 28, 1970 to mark the first anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, and over the decades the tone and tenor of the Pride March has changed. Nevertheless, it still has the power to inspire and empower the members of our community that need that extra push….

PRIDE, LOVE & GAY MEN

Finding a fuckbuddy, a hookup, making friends are all easier than finding love during pride month. Am I right? To find love, not only you need to be attracted to the person physically, but also mentally and sometimes even spiritually! During pride month, I feel it is even harder than any other time (depending on…

¿CAN CHEATING BE HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When it comes to trust, cheating is like a bomb that goes off between your two-some. It destroys this core foundation that is needed for a successful relationship. The desire to have our beloved partner to ourselves is such a primal need that the breach of monogamy can inspire a level of hurt and rage…

RENAMING GAY PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Invariably each year, the question of the value of Gay Pride is raised and as Gay Pride Month draws near, it’s worth asking whether renaming Pride to Rights might better reflect what the whole month is actually about  What are your thoughts?

¿WHY DO YOU WE STAY WITH MEN THAT ARE ‘BAD’ FOR US?

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain jerks. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…