¿CAN CHEATING BE HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When it comes to trust, cheating is like a bomb that goes off between your two-some. It destroys this core foundation that is needed for a successful relationship. The desire to have our beloved partner to ourselves is such a primal need that the breach of monogamy can inspire a level of hurt and rage…

RENAMING GAY PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Invariably each year, the question of the value of Gay Pride is raised and as Gay Pride Month draws near, it’s worth asking whether renaming Pride to Rights might better reflect what the whole month is actually about  What are your thoughts?

¿WHY DO YOU WE STAY WITH MEN THAT ARE ‘BAD’ FOR US?

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain jerks. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…

¿WHY DO WE STAY WITH MEN THAT DON’T ADD TO OUR VALUE?

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain A$$HOLES. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…

¿WHICH MAN/KING ARE YOU?

A Man/King that needs to learn how to be a King? Or are you a mercenary with a crown? Is there a difference?

AGE DIFFERENCES IN RELATIONSHIPS…

Imagine you meet this guy; you both get along well, you start seeing each other often and going on dates. But there is one thing bothering you: there is a big age gap between you. You are in your early 20s and he is much older. Should/would you stop seeing him? Would a gap in…

NEW RELATIONSHIPS & CHRISTMAS GIFTS…

Christmas is about spending time with love ones and buying gifts, but what about that guy you just started dating? How long should you be dating someone before you buy him a gift for Christmas? Is this something reserved for only serious relationships, or would you do it because it is Christmas?