¿HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ORBITED?

Well, have you? I am asking because orbiting is the newest dating trend they say and it’s the derivative of ghosting. The term was reportedly coined by Man Repeller writer Anna Iovine but what is orbiting, you ask? Before we go to that part though, let’s define ghosting first.  Say you are in a relationship…

¿WHY IS MONOGAMY SEEN AS SOMETHING TO FEAR FOR SOME GAY MEN?

Maybe this sounds familiar: You meet a guy, it goes well, so you go out. Then you go on another date, and another, and all of a sudden, a few months have passed, and you’re with someone who makes you smile. But there’s that nagging feeling: Is this too easy, asking yourself if you’re settling?…

¿THE TERM “DADDY”: WHAT’S YOUR STATE OF MIND?

What defines an actual “daddy” in the gay community now?  Is it one’s biological age? The type of behavior one exhibits when out and about or in the bedroom? A look that makes one want to submit to him?

¿WHY DO GAY MEN CHEAT: ARE WIRED FOR MONOGAMY?

Cuffing season, autumn flings, pop culture and peer pressure often make us feel as though love, sex, and relationships are all supposed to happen to everyone at a prescribed time and in just the right order. And when they don’t, the problem isn’t that one-size-fits-all relationship boxes are silly, it’s that you must be doing…

¿HOW ARE YOU ENDING YOUR SUMMER?

Sadly, summer can’t be year-round for all of us. For those of us that are about to experience seasonal changes that autumn bring, now is the time to pack in the last of summer fun! This is not the time for being a couch potato, it is time get pull out the list of all…

¿WHY ARE THEY NAKED AGAIN?

Do you ever tire of seeing naked men or men in various ‘thirst trap’ positions? Why or why not?    

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS & GAY MEN

What is it with gay men and open relationships? Are they evidence that our relationships are as varied and individual as we are or proof that gay men have commitment issues? Should we live by our own rules and choices or are we greedy, selfish and promiscuous? And now that same sex couples can get married,…

¿HOW DO YOU HANDLE APPROACHING MEN?

As society progresses, it seems that meeting men in bars is becoming more and more rare, and while many of us are too shy to approach a guy, when we don’t get approached often either, it can leave us at a frustrating impasse. Moreover it can be discouraging when you go out with friends and…

¿DOES BEING GAY MAKE US MORE ‘MASCULINE?’

One trait commonly associated with masculinity is the behaviour of seeking other male attention for approval. Think team sports, it’s all about dude-on-dude approval. But gay guys often strive to achieve a similar end, also regularly seeking validation from other men. The tactics may differ, however. Does that make gay men, by definition, hyper-masculine? Perhaps a…

¿ARE YOU THE MARRYING KIND?

 Are you single, married, or in a (monogamous or non-monogamous) relationship? Moreover, are you the marrying kind? And what do you think about monogamous and non-monogamous relationship in general? Do you also want to get married someday or are you not the marrying type?