10 YEARS…

Today I’m celebrating 10 years of togetherness with my beloved and I can’t believe how quickly that time has gone by and how much my life has changed for the better from having a committed loving partnership. There is so much joy, satisfaction and fulfillment that comes from having a healthy and vital relationship and…

SEX IN YOUR CHILDHOOD HOME, OKAY ¿OR? DISRESPECTFUL…

So this past Christmas Noel took me to his home country (Saint Vincent & the Grenadines) to see where he came from and to meet his family. I had great time and would do it again, yet I couldn’t help but wonder by us being there for a bit, if it would disrespectful if we…

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT FOR ME!

I’m 37 and a monogamist.  There, I said it. While the gays assemble the pitchforks, I should explain that I’m not a prude, just that open relationships don’t put the lead in my pencil. Having only thrown myself pelvis first into the gay scene for over a decade, I was once surprised these things actually…

HAPPY 7TH ANNIVERSARY!

THERE’S NO MANLIKE THIS MANSO THIS IS THE MAN! ON VACATION IN LAS VEGAS WORKING TOWARDS PUTTING “0” BEHIND THAT 7! SEE YOU GUYS WHEN I RETURN ON OCTOBER 31ST.

¿AIN’T YOU TIRED?…GAY MEN

Warriors of love? Never, ever! They are forever trying to commit treason Against… Forever abandoned to chaos. How can they not see? Fact from fiction and what is true reality. Ya work so hard, trying to undo what you say is hard to find, You pat me on the back, Turn around and then plunge…

¿NOT ENOUGH, JUST RIGHT?

So for the past few months I’ve been wondering about my sex life with Noel. Our relationship is fine, we still love each other, but I can’t help but wonder if something is wrong when I could do anything sexual with him on a daily but that isn’t the case for him. He enjoys our time together (LOVEto watch…

¡HAPPY 6th ANNIVERSARY BABY!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY & I LOVE YOU! Long lasting relationships are made of sugar and spice but not always everything nice. Life is not a bed of roses for any couple in the world. It is not easy to make a relationship last a lifetime. It is all about two people who are determined to make…

¡VACATION TIME!

SO THE HUBBY & I ARE VISITING ATLANTA FOR A WEEK, SO AS I TAKE A BREAK FROM MY ‘NORMAL’ SO WILL I TAKE A BREAK FROM BLOGGING, BUT I KNOW YOU WON’T MISS ME AS THE BOYS WILL KEEP YOU VERY ENTERTAINED!

COMMUNICATION KEEPS US CENTERED

In a long-term relationship it is often necessary to get back to basics and come back to center with each other. For Noel and me we know that our relationship knows that the dance of intimacy involves coming together and moving apart. We know that early in a relationship, intense periods of closeness are important…

HAPPY 5TH ANNIVERSARY NOEL!

BEING ON THIS JOURNEY WITH YOU IS QUITE EXHILARATING; LIKE I’M WITNESS TO SOME WELL-KEPT SECRET ABOUT THE MEANING OF LIFE N’ LOVE. I LOVE YOU!