SEX: ¿WHAT IS IT TO YOU?

We each have our own experiences and definitions of what sex is, and that’s okay. What’s not okay is when society makes many queer folks feel they are invalid for enjoying what turns them on.  So what is sex for you? What are the things you cannot go without? What are the things that are huge turn…

🍆 D!CK ISSUES…🍆

Are we obsessed with the penis? My penis. Your penis. His penis. Any penis! As the popular adage goes, a man usually thinks with his dick instead of his brain. Whether or not this is justified, our cocks are often blamed for our bad behaviour: from the constant need to check hookup apps, to covert…

5 GREAT WAYS TO GET IN THE MOOD FOR SEX

I think we’ve all had those days (and sometimes weeks or months) when our sex drives play hide-and-seek. After a difficult project at work, a stressful time with the kids, or even an amazing but exhausting vacation, sometimes I can’t find a way to feel sexy. There are so many other shortcuts that yield the…

¿WHEN DO YOU TYPICALLY HAVE SEX WITH A NEW PARTNER?

In navigating this gay world of ours, sex cums by very easy most day. So tell us when do you typically have sex with a new partner?  The first date? I prefer to meet someone more than once before moving on to sex? I like to have sex with someone before I decide to go…

¿HOW DO YOU GET IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Sex with your partner can cheer you up, mellow you out, and make you feel needed and desired, but what happens when you can’t figure out how to get in the mood? What happens when it’s hard to figure out how to explain to your partner?  How do you say, I don’t feel like having…

7 SAVVY & SUCCESSFUL TIPS FOR GAY DATING (& SEX) IN THE 21st CENTURY

Amy Winehouse famously sang, “Love is a losing game”, and she didn’t even have Grindr. With an interest in casual sex and random encounters at an all-time peak, and a dwindling social scene those words have never been truer. Sure, there’s still a large portion of us craving love in a more traditional sense, but…

ADMIT IT…(VALIDATING SEX)

If most of us are honest, it makes us feel good to know that someone wants to have sex with us. We get that little ego boost because some guy wants to do the no pants dance with us. On the surface, that doesn’t seem too bad. But how do you prevent every sexual encounter…

¿WHAT IS THE BEST SEX YOU EVER HAD?

Picture this: You. The man of your dreams. In bed. The walls shake with the power of a Richter 7 earthquake, your hands are clasped in unbridled ecstasy, gasps and moans of intense animalistic pleasure fill the air as the heavens open to the sound of your earth-shattering, mind-blowing, operatic lovemaking! Sound familiar? Probably not….

THE THINGS I WISH WE KNEW ABOUT SEX (BEFORE WE STARTED DOING IT)

It’s kind of strange to think about sex and how simple it all is, isn’t it? Do you remember fantasizing about being kissed before it actually happened, but didn’t spend much time thinking about intercourse before you started having it? Isn’t it strange how all of a sudden you become a man who is actively…

THE SEX INTERVIEW BEFORE THE FIRST DATE…

Living in a world where our intimacy boundaries are being pushed and us turning the intimacy tables, do this sex before a date with someone is too much or makes a lot sense? Many of us used to think of sex as you crossed the line now you are in an intimate zone, but now…