¿DO YOU LIKE WATCHING MEN MASTURBATE?

Are you a big fan of watching men masturbate? My reply to this question is NO! First of all, I am very picky and even men turn me on, I find it a waste to just watch some guy jerk off. Now if it someone I had actual sex with then that’s different.  So tell…

¿DO YOU HAVE SEX IN PUBLIC BATHROOMS?

Who still has sex in public bathrooms? Well, actually, quite a lot of people. Grindr may be on everyone’s phone but many gay men still get a thrill from jacking off or getting down and dirty in a public toilet. Is this your thing? Why or why not?

A MODERN GAY MAN’S GUIDE TO CRUISING

Given the technological and social changes we’ve seen in most Western countries in recent decades, you would imagine that the need for gay men to go cruising for sex has become a bit redundant. If you want a quick, anonymous sexual encounter (or something more) then you can simply put your smart-phone to work or…

SUMMER SEX RECIPE…

The sex we have in the summer months are as varied as we are. It comes in many shapes and sizes, from a weekend quickie to something long and indulgent. It can be hot and exotic, or quiet and chilled. It makes some of us search for more, while others are relaxed and laid-back. Nonetheless,…

(UN)COMMITTED SEX…

Consensual sex between gay men happens all the time, so why are there so many lingering questions in the air when it comes time to hook up? How can we not respond to the awkward silence in some offhanded way, though it is hard to be blithe and whimsical when we’re attempting to vulnerable and…

¿’TOP’ PRIVILEGE? LET’S TALK…

The top and bottom dichotomy is something we gay men are intimately aware of. It’s something that’s spawned a lot of biases and preconceived notions, some of which most gay guys believe in without thinking twice about it. Do you guys believe that tops enjoy privileges that bottoms don’t? Do you think that tops expect…

SEXTING RULES FOR ONLINE DATING…

You’re a man, and you’ve got needs. Luckily, your needs aren’t so selfish: Everyone has them — though they’re on a sliding scale, from positive reinforcement to straight-up freaky-naughty stuff. If you’re playing the online dating game, you will encounter potential matches who fall everywhere along this spectrum, and your chemistry with each person will…

¡NO MORE SEX SHAMING!

So what Pride month coming to a close, I’m sure many of wonder, why would anyone want to be a slut? After all, this word is deeply misogynistic, where women are criticized for dressing a certain way and for having openly active sex lives. This negativity also spills into the gay world to some extent, particularly…

TOP/BOTTOM: ¿DO WE REALLY UNDERSTAND SEX?

In a penetration-obsessed sexual culture, who’s a “top” and who’s a “bottom” becomes a deal breaker, cock-blocking far too many potentially amazing partners. This massive loss of potentially good sex occurs because we reduce sex down to just penetration. But when you expand and open up sex, you become compatible with almost everyone, top or…