SEXTING RULES FOR ONLINE DATING…

You’re a man, and you’ve got needs. Luckily, your needs aren’t so selfish: Everyone has them — though they’re on a sliding scale, from positive reinforcement to straight-up freaky-naughty stuff. If you’re playing the online dating game, you will encounter potential matches who fall everywhere along this spectrum, and your chemistry with each person will…

¡NO MORE SEX SHAMING!

So what Pride month coming to a close, I’m sure many of wonder, why would anyone want to be a slut? After all, this word is deeply misogynistic, where women are criticized for dressing a certain way and for having openly active sex lives. This negativity also spills into the gay world to some extent, particularly…

TOP/BOTTOM: ¿DO WE REALLY UNDERSTAND SEX?

In a penetration-obsessed sexual culture, who’s a “top” and who’s a “bottom” becomes a deal breaker, cock-blocking far too many potentially amazing partners. This massive loss of potentially good sex occurs because we reduce sex down to just penetration. But when you expand and open up sex, you become compatible with almost everyone, top or…

KEEPING YOUR CLOTHES ON DURING SEX…

I am the last person to knock nudity. We strip down to our birthday suit to do lots of important stuff: shower, use the restroom (kinda), get hot and heavy. But how about keeping your clothes on during sex (just a little bit)? Wouldn’t that heighten the excitement of eventual nakedness? Do you think the…

¿WHY DOES D!CK SIZE MATTER?

We all know that sex is more than just penis size, yet it is the only thing that matters to a lot of gay men. Why is that? Is it merely porn and general folklore that conditioned us to believe that when it comes to penises, the bigger the better? Does size influence if you…

SEX: ¿WHAT IS IT TO YOU?

We each have our own experiences and definitions of what sex is, and that’s okay. What’s not okay is when society makes many queer folks feel they are invalid for enjoying what turns them on.  So what is sex for you? What are the things you cannot go without? What are the things that are huge turn…

🍆 D!CK ISSUES…🍆

Are we obsessed with the penis? My penis. Your penis. His penis. Any penis! As the popular adage goes, a man usually thinks with his dick instead of his brain. Whether or not this is justified, our cocks are often blamed for our bad behaviour: from the constant need to check hookup apps, to covert…

5 GREAT WAYS TO GET IN THE MOOD FOR SEX

I think we’ve all had those days (and sometimes weeks or months) when our sex drives play hide-and-seek. After a difficult project at work, a stressful time with the kids, or even an amazing but exhausting vacation, sometimes I can’t find a way to feel sexy. There are so many other shortcuts that yield the…

¿WHEN DO YOU TYPICALLY HAVE SEX WITH A NEW PARTNER?

In navigating this gay world of ours, sex cums by very easy most day. So tell us when do you typically have sex with a new partner?  The first date? I prefer to meet someone more than once before moving on to sex? I like to have sex with someone before I decide to go…