¿SHOULD LIFE BE DIFFICULT?

Should life be this difficult? Yes, but not for the reasons so many of us are experiencing. Life shouldn’t be difficult because of communication issues, building or rebuilding trust, financial pressures or any of the other problems that top the lists of reasons life sucks so hard. Those struggles are symptoms of a deeper issue…

¿WHO SAYS THAT’S TRUE?

We’re all spiritually, emotionally, and physically aware beings. We pick up stuff from the world around usand the result is that many of our thoughts, feelings, and emotions aren’t our own. Instead we pick them up in different conversations, situations, and motivations from those around us. If you find yourself buying into a point of…

¿LOOKING FOR CUPID?

Are you a sucker when it comes to Valentine’s Day? The balloons, the candlelit dinners, the lovey-dovey messages…do they all totally get your heart beating? Do you turn to utter mush when it comes to anything romance? For all of you single peeps out there, let me stop you before you click over to another…

BEING ALONE: A RELATIONSHIP WITH SELF

The most important relationship we will ever have in our life is with our own self. The most important relationship we have in our lives is with our selves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives–from birth onward–this relationship can be the most difficult one…

¿WHAT CAN YOU LET OF RIGHT NOW WITHOUT LOSING A THING?

Honestly, there’s so much you can let go of in life without losing a thing.  It’s called growth. Letting go of old ideals makes way for new opportunities. Letting go of what isn’t working makes way for what will. When the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it’s time…

UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE OF YOURSELF

Many of us are familiar with the idea of loving our spouses, children, or parents unconditionally — and we might even try to practice that unconditional love, though imperfectly. But do we try to love ourselves unconditionally? For many of us, there’s an underlying feeling of not being good enough, wanting to be better, wanting…

¿CAN I TELL YOU A SECRET?

You don’t have to be in a relationship. I am mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Men aren’t good looking unless they’re wanted. We aren’t loveable until we’re dating someone. But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t…