¡HAPPY 39th BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME!

Live your own life with boldness and authenticity, and you add value to all of life. Expect the best for yourself, fulfill that expectation with honest, effective effort, and everyone benefits. Being bold does not mean being a brute. Boldly following your own desires does not require that you trample on the lives of others….

¡HAPPY BIRTHDAY…EARTH~DAY…BREATH~DAY TO ME!

I do my best to celebrate my birthday every day, not just once a year, because each breath is a gift, and every moment is a cause for celebration! So today I will make a special effort to enjoy & celebrate this breath-day! Oooh.. and there are CAKES!

THE GAY GAP YEAR…

A gap year is usually taken at the end of high school. Young people take a year off – the gap year – to pursue something non-education related. It’s usually travel. And it’s usually a means to buy some time, before having to make the next major life decision – study or work. Gay men, for a…

I DIDN’T RANT…

I keep reading that my blog entries about religion are rants. This would be troubling to me if I didn’t understanding, a rant is an explosive diatribe, a poorly articulated spewing of raw emotion. To successfully write a rant one would need to use a lot of foul language and a small army of exclamation…

QUITTING WORK @ 45

Forty five years is an arbitrary ‘menopause time’ for men. Life has more meaning than making money. It’s been said it’s harder for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven. In other words, serving two masters at the same time is like having…

BEING A WHORE MADE ME A BETTER PARTNER

I never knew what it was like to be free with my impulses. The years of suppression turned me into a dummy. I had zero skills. All that existed was the urging of sexual gratification, which had been denied to me my whole life. Love and intimacy was unfamiliar because all I wanted to have…

¿WHOSE ACCEPTANCE REALLY, REALLY, REALLY MATTERS?

I’ve spent the bulk of my life chasing after acceptance, and running the hell away from it once I had some. At the age of 28, it’s finally become clear to me that the acceptance most worth seeking is self-acceptance. ‏We’re born with a need for acceptance by the people who raise us through childhood….

TODAY IS MY EARTH~DAY!

So on this day I invite you to be present & embrace each and every moment that comes your way, I know I will!

¿CAN MY ONE ON ONE TIME HELP OR HURT MY RELATIONSHIP?

Let me just put this out there I really enjoy a good jack-off.  It’s not compulsive in any way, I just enjoy a bit of ‘me-time’.  I jack off about once a day and I pretty much always use porn to help me get off. I have sex too in a monogamous relationship of six…

¡HELLO 2K14!

It is hard to believe that another year has slipped away. 2013 is now but a distant memory.  The advent of a New Year always brings a fresh beginning; an opportunity to metaphorically cast off baggage from the prior year, and to carry forward good memories, memories that instilled in us a sense of hope…

THE MAN I AM

This time of year generally calls for some obligatory self-reflection which, unfortunately for some of us, dissolves into an excuse to pick ourselves apart. It’s a bad habit shrouded by all of the hoorah that goes along with crossing the threshold into a fresh set of 365 days and with them, a bounty of new…