THE 12th GAY OF X-MAS: WAKING UP TO THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS

We are multidimensional beings and our earthly aspects are a very small part of who we are. Many of us are familiar with the experience of waking up to the fact that our lives are no longer working the way we have set them up. Sometimes this is due to a shift occurring inside ourselves…

THE 11th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF DREAMS & IMAGINATION

Today we’re going to finally own what our wildest dreams are because if we don’t own them, they have no way of coming to fruition.  As children we we’re able to play pretend, imagine amazing things, and proclaim what we wanted to be when we grew up without any hesitation. However, as we mature, take…

THE 10th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF BROTHERHOOD

There was a time where men stood together in a bond of brotherhood, men supporting men. As men embrace the fullness of who they are as individuals, they may find themselves supporting other men, helping others to reach the level of inner comfort and outer freedom that they themselves have found. Among those who are…

THE 9th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF KNOWING YOUR SOUL

There will likely be times in your life when your soul evolves more quickly than your circumstances. There will likely be times in your life when your soul evolves more quickly than your circumstances. Your subconscious mind may be ready to move forward long before you recognize that you are destined to embrace a new…

THE 8th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF DARK DAYS

Darker days are just as much a part of life as are the days graced with sunshine. When we refer to a “beautiful day,” we are often describing a day that is sunny, clear, and without a cloud in sight to mar a sky that is a brilliantly perfect blue. We find ourselves bouncing along,…

THE 7th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF RELAXATION

Well, today take a much needed mindful break, and relax. Because we’ve been doing so much intense work, and have begun to see the rewards, we don’t want to just sit around and do nothing. Besides, doing nothing isn’t actually relaxing, it’s just being lazy. Being lazy is so 2017. We’re ready to be beyond…

THE 6th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF COMMUNITY

There’s something incredibly important about having people in your life, which you can go to for advice when it comes to things in both your personal and professional life. A community offers years of wisdom, knowledge, and guidance to share with you, which will undoubtedly help guide you in making smart and informed decisions. They’ve…

THE 5th GAY OF X-MAS: MARRY YOURSELF

I know this isn’t new but hear me out…This is about completely honoring and loving ourselves. We’ve need to have honest conversations with ourselves, pushed ourselves to try new things, and to take a really long look in the mirror. We need to do this because we need to get out of our own way,…

THE 4th GAY OF X-MAS: OPENINESS

Although not everyone meets our expectations or ideals, nor is everyone the picture perfect sexual fantasy of our dreams, we must learn to look beyond the physical appearance of those who come into our lives and look at the heart, soul, and mind of a person. Open your mind, open your soul, open your heart, and give…

THE 3rd GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF ORDER & SPACE

We want to continue to make our living environments feel as zen as possible, and add to our overall feeling of peace and joy, which is life’s ultimate success. So, take a critical look at the things we have surrounding us, and declutter. Today remove some of the excess from our lives. By removing outdated,…

THE 2nd GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF COURAGE

As we mark a turning point in our world, it’s more important than ever to use your voice. We no longer can assume that everyone has each other’s best interests in mind, and it’s our duty to work as hard as we can for positive and progressive change. We must remember to listen to people’s…

THE 1st GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF YOU

This is a process, a journey, a never ending adventure to find out who we really are, and what we’re made of. We have to wake up everyday and decide that we want to be happy, confident, strong, brave, amazing, and unapologetically ourselves. It truly is the biggest job of our lives, and we’re the…