WHY GAY GIRLS HAVE IT HARDER THAN GAY GUYS (WRITTEN BY A GAY GUY)

The often special relationship between straight women and gay men is long-documented. And romanticized. So much so, it even inspired an international, possibly-soon-to-be-returning hit TV show. But what about gay men’s relationship with lesbian women? As a gay man myself, I sometimes sense that things are strained between us; especially as we approach something distantly resembling sexual equality in certain…

TOP LESBIAN SEX MYTHS

Like any minority group, there are plenty of myths and stereotypes about lesbians. Here we take a look at and break down some of the biggest myths about lesbian sex and sexuality. 1. Lesbians don’t like penetration. Fact: This myth is often perpetuated by lesbians themselves. I can’t tell you the number of lesbians who write into…

¿IS THE WORD "DYKE" OFFENSIVE?

Is the word “dyke” offensive or is it just another word for “lesbian?” Do you use the word? If so, in what context? Does “dyke” mean a certain kind of lesbian or can any lesbian be called a dyke?

WHAT NOT TO SAY TO A LESBIAN

As a lesbian or bisexual woman, you’ve probably heard a lot of comments you never want to hear again. Whether the person was ignorant, prejudiced or just doesn’t get it, there are some things a lesbian wish she never have to hear again. Here are the top ten things never to say to a lesbian:…

¿WHY DON’T LESBIANS HAVE SEX WITH IF THEY LIKE DILDOS?

Question: Why Don’t LesbiansHave Sex with Men if They like Dildos? Dear Lesbian LifeI watched Real Sex on HBO today about lesbians wearing strap ons. If you arelesbian and into woman why wear a strap on instead of being with a man?Chuck Cox Answer: Dear Chuck: The simple answer is because a womanis wearing it. Sexual attraction is…

¡NO PRIDE THERE!

Isn’t it AMAZING how the various pride events bring us all together? There is no us against them, gay men and lesbians party and celebrate pride side by side. Now when the glitter is all washed off and the parade is over, what happens to that togetherness? It’s as if many gay man growing up and…

¿WHO IS AFRAID OF A ‘NIGGA BITCH’?

Ever notice how the world suffers from turmoil because of ignorance? Ever notice how big the turmoil is because of the ‘straight’ male obliviousness? Well I’ve seen the turmoil ‘straight’ men cause and it was in full action @ work the other day. There are some guys that wash cars weekly in the parking lot…

¿HOW DO YOU DEFINE A LESBIAN?

What does it mean to be a lesbian today? How can lesbians consciously express their masculinity/feminity without being seen as TOO manish on the one hand…or TOO womanly to be a lesbian on the other? What’s the most loving way for a conscious Lesbian to express herself?

10 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO A LESBIAN

(I DEDICATE THIS POST TO MY BARBER!) Lesbians are great for hanging out with, talking to about sports and beating you in arm wresting. Unfortunately, the porn industry has also done a pretty good job of convincing you lesbians also want to have sex with you. Luckily, this real, flesh-and-blood lesbian to set you straight…