BEING YOUR OWN GAY VOICE OF REASON

How we attach meaning to events in our lives has a large influence on the quality of our life. The meaning we assign to our experiences–whether pleasant or distressing, is a very powerful factor in determining the quality of our lives. What we imagine events to mean will color the way we feel about ourselves,…

LOVE SHOULD MAKE YOU FEEL…

If you’ve been wondering if you should go, then go. It doesn’t have to be forever. Take a break if that’s what you want. Don’t stay because you are afraid you won’t find someone else. If your gut feeling has been keeping you up at nights, you need to set yourself free and explore. Go…

PRIDE MONTH MAY BE OVER, BUT LGBTQ WRATH MONTH HAS BEGUN

Say goodbye to LGBTQ Pride month. Say hello to LGBTQ Wrath month. As the religious right trotted out their condemnations and concerns about Pride, one of the most common tropes is that pride is one of the seven deadly sins. Since the Old Testament also says homosexuality is a sin, when you combine the two…

¿ARE YOU SINGLE BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF BEING VULNERABLE?

So after years of searching for ‘Mr Right’ you finally found your match. He’s smart, funny, creative, affectionate and emotionally balanced, pretty much ticking all the essential boxes on your list. You’ve always been picky and perhaps that might explain why you’ve been single for most of your adult life. But now that all looks…

GAY MEN & FRIENDSHIP: THE ELUSIVE GOAL?

I would like to know your opinion on a delicate subject, friendship with other gay men. It is something that too many of us have a hard time with. I’m not talking about party friends, or friends to go for a coffee with, I’m talking about real friends, TRUE gay friends. Friends that you know more…

GAY MEN & SEXUAL ROLES

I never really understood the term “the birds and the bees.” Apparently, it’s some important conversation mommy and daddy are supposed to have with you when they sit you down and explain to you the repercussions of having sex. Well, I’ve been having sex for quite some time now, and by the grace of God…

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE: SEASON 10– “THE FINALE”

After a season that did little to celebrate the series’ season ten milestone, last night’s RuPaul’s Drag Race finale took time before crowning its latest winner to pay homage to its much humbler roots. The bloated finale took its time getting to the good stuff, building anticipation for a battle that took a few bizarre turns. Opening…